i asked a guy over to my house for a home cooked fancy dinner. it was a first date. we had a fantastic time- great chemistry, non stop conversation and laughs, flirting, kissing,making out, etc. he even sent me a text when he got home complimenting me telling me i'm beautiful. its been almost 3 days and i have not heard from him!
2006-10-09 19:08:49 · 17 answers · asked by santy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no i did not sleep with him!
2006-10-09 19:21:47 · update #1
He's thinking, why haven't you text or called him back after he complimented you on your beauty as soon as he left. The dude is in to you.
p.s. this is my boyfriends opinion. strait from a man mouth
2006-10-09 19:27:19 · answer #1 · answered by ineedya_00 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be alot of reasons why he hasn't called you. People in the dating world play so many games its really pathetic and you have to play along with them until you find your prince. Try not to put your heart out there so fast and be patient while you play the dating game.
You set the stage for him really fast because you cooked dinner for him, you guys had great convo, you laughed, kissed, flirted and made out. Whoa Nelly, slow your roll! Things may be going too fast in his mind because we all know most guys are scared of commitment and in his mind, he may be thinking you want that since you did all that for him. Those things you did were nice, but they were a lot for a first date and you really went all out so it may have scared him away. Call him and if you reach him, just ask how he is doing and start picking up from the conversations you guys had at your house and go from there like you guys never skipped a beat. Whatever you do, don't jump down his throat about not calling you for 3 days. As a matter of fact, don't even mention that because you never want a man to see you sweat. If you mention it, he will think you are nagging him and that will be a total turn off for him, so whatever you do, don't mention the no call for 3 days thing. If he brings it up just say, oh, I figured you were busy and keep going on about other things. Again, never let him see you sweat.
If you get his voicemail, just say hi this is---, I was just thinking about you and wanted to say hello. Call me when you get a second. If he calls, be nice and sweet and talk to him about whatever you guys were talking about the night he was over to your house. If he doesn't call in about 24-48 hours from that voicemail, you know what the deal is...he was playing games, or you were moving too fast for him so next time you know what to do.
2006-10-10 02:47:25 · answer #2 · answered by chocolatebabycakes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets say... the guy got out of your place and told about the sitaution to his freind... His friend screamed at him "What U spent 8 ******* hours nad didn't get a ****? dude dump her find one who does"
He thought thats a strange advice. so he called another friend who is expert with women. He screamed "Dude why in the world do you spend 8 ******* hours on first date. No wonder you didn't get a ****, Listen all you gotta do now is play cool. Don't call her for X no of days and when you call her say this this this to her and she'll be right all over you."
He got more confused so he called me. I was like "Dude, 8 freaking ******* hours? You should be hanged till death if you can't get her to bed in 8 hours. Man you can get married in 8 hrs. You should get a life first before you get to dating women. How in the world you can find 8 freaking hours to spend on first date?"
Now he's more confused and wondering if he should call you or not?
2006-10-10 03:21:39 · answer #3 · answered by direct2leo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that he was a little intimidated. Sounds like you really went all out. He may think that he can't keep up with you. Who knows? The ball is in his court. Wait. Don't work any harder than he is to get a "thing" going.
2006-10-10 02:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by KIT J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he is not all that interested. Or he is a good faker. Or he was thinking you as a friend.
I suggest you phone him. He msight be one of those guy who
is an air head and can't remember to do anythhing.
Call him, be sweet. Don't fuss about him not calling...that will bug him
2006-10-10 02:13:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he likes you so much he's scared. I can imagine him picking up the phone to call and dialing the first number, breaking out into a sweat and hanging up.
2006-10-10 02:26:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till the weekend, he may be very busy with work. If ya dont hear from him by sunday give him a call.
2006-10-10 02:17:45 · answer #7 · answered by rainbowbright 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many jobs does he work? It could be that he is genuinely busy. I have done that before. It doesn't mean that he is not thinking of you, he just may not be able to get to you. We just have enough information in your case. Call him and see what's up.
2006-10-10 02:16:11 · answer #8 · answered by savvyd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's busy ... or playing hard to get most guys say that when gurls play hard to get it makes them want the girl more maybe he's trying that on you ?? or maybe he's afraid to falll in love with you there could be so many reasons why ?? Ask him he's the only one who can really tell you
2006-10-10 02:22:27 · answer #9 · answered by curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are YOU waiting for? Why don't you call him! Don't wait for him to make the first move--you do it!
2006-10-10 02:10:55 · answer #10 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋