im a freshman in college and i have autism (which some of u ppl out there don't know what it means)but its a mental disability that kind of makes me different from everybody else, how can i find one that likes me in my own town, i like other girls but i mostly like asian girls cuz there so pretty and i love there culture, i see some with white guys and alot of other guys but there like skaters or punkrockers and im nether does it really matter, im so loney i dont have any one to hang out with, i never had a girlfriend in my whole life, i feel so lonely, i get very jelous at guys who have asian girl friends, and it really pisses me off when i see 1 guy with a whole group of asian girls, i just want to go over and beat the sh*t out of him, and i worry about the ones in east asia like japan cuz of north korea, how can i find one that likes me
2006-10-09 19:05:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmm....try to talk to them first, I don't think it matters if you're a skaters or puckrockers or not. Just be yourself. Be nice, we love someone nice.
Cheer!
2006-10-09 19:39:18 · answer #1 · answered by Wanlaya 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You have the completely wrong attitude for attracting girls. I know you feel bad when you see other guys having the fun you wish you had, but, its not their fault that the girls are attracted to them. Jealousy is a terrible thing and no one wants to be around a jealous person. Also, dont be so shallow. Judge people by their actions and personality, not looks. If you want to be find someone to spend time with then widen your options, females of all races can be interesting. And dont feel bad about not having a girlfriend. I have plenty of friends that havent dated but their not losing hope. With the right attitude you'll surely find someone. For me, the easiest way to find the person that I love so much was to become his friend first. Get to know girls as friends and maybe it will turn into something more intimate. Good luck and keep your chin up.
2006-10-10 02:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are lonely, first you gotta cure that problem. meet up with others.
1. Be interested in knowing their culture. Interact with them. Learn their language(I am learning japanese these days, its lot more fun than english you know)
2. Hang out at places where most asian already hang out... if possible rent a room there.
3. Make freinds with asian guys and girls... I know how you like to beat guys up but other guys are not meant for fighting you know...
other thigns that will help you with women.
Dont' act jealous, Don't act clingy. Be Your Very Best Self.
2006-10-10 04:04:16 · answer #3 · answered by direct2leo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found the best way to make friends with asians is to learn some of there language and use it chinese mandarin is best i'll give you a an easy way to say 2 things using english say them in english just how i write them .
Knee.how .ma....its one word your asking how are you
may .lee du'goonya.......means the girl is pretty .not so hard is it its the way i learnt and i am understood by them goodluck.
2006-10-10 02:25:36 · answer #4 · answered by john h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become a skater apparently. I have no idea why everyone thinks Asian women are like some unobtainable phenomenon, they're just like everyone else. Just be yourself and be nice.
2006-10-10 02:09:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your question made me laugh so good job. Asian girls are just regular girls ya know. Approach her like you would to any other girl that's your friend. Talk to her, get to know her, see if she has an interest in you, and go from there. Basic stuff.
2006-10-10 03:25:15 · answer #6 · answered by RePat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't make a girl like you. you have to share your fave things to do and try to get close movies are always the best way to go on a first date. try to bump into her and her frineds and smile really nicely. If she is alone go and helpo her and keep her company. Hope this helps message me if you have any more help
2006-10-10 02:11:47 · answer #7 · answered by Kiki J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha you sound sweet.........lol..........well there is an asian girl waiting for you some where and you know what you just have to be patient because that is life trust me asian girls like guy who is willing to be there for them that is what they want in the long run lol.........so keep waiting and she will come........as for not having a gf in all your life .......well me too, i am a freshman too and i have never had a bf(by choice) so i know how you feel but that doesn't stop me from living life to its fullest and i too am wating for that person ...........haha lol..........just be patient she will come lol........
2006-10-10 03:00:52 · answer #8 · answered by confused 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give it time- when the time is right you will get your dream girl. If you really like any girl in particular then go talk to her. Even if she says no- well whhat the hell at leat you tried, right?
2006-10-10 02:09:26 · answer #9 · answered by Abhilasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and approach an Asian girl, just to talk to. I think you can do that.
2006-10-10 02:07:53 · answer #10 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋