Ive just gotten rid of my cheating boyfriend. and this isnt the first boyfriend that has done this too me,
Do all men cheat. How can you tell when you meet someone if their liable to cheat. and how can I ever trust men again.
I would Never cheat on anyone, I cant understand how you can do that to the person you love?
2006-10-09 19:00:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I did stand up for myself, as soon as I figured (gut instinct) that he might be cheating, and he was lieing to me about everything, I got rid of him
2006-10-09 19:06:18 · update #1
you did the right thing to dump his ass! and its great to see you dont blame yourself. but not all men cheat and it is unfair to say so. i have had women cheat on me even pretend to date me just for a laugh(which is worse!!). i hated women for a while but i got over it. the main thing is to have faith in yourself and in others. its going to be hard but remember there are others who would remain true. believe in yourself and you cant go wrong.
2006-10-09 20:12:38 · answer #1 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No all men don't cheat. I have no idea how you can tell at the beginning, the only clue would be if he has a girl already & he is cheating on her with you, other than that I don't know.They are probably a nicer breed of guy, they show great respect to you & don't just like you for your body & they are interested in what you have to say & care about you & your life.
it will be hard to trust again but in time you will get it back.You are a sensible girl for getting rid of the cheater that shows you respect your self & that is very good
2006-10-10 02:14:29 · answer #2 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never cheated but I've had girls cheat on me a few times, I hate that **** more then anything else, sadly theres no sure way to know if they will, just go for the type of person who seems respectable, not someone with a new girl every week or brags about sex etc. Sad but true, you can only gamble and try and increase your chances of finding the right man
Oh yeah and its not just men, women can be just as muuch of a jackass
2006-10-10 02:10:31 · answer #3 · answered by Michael M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not all men cheat. I believe that those who have a lot friends and go out a lot are more likely to cheat. One more thing, you stated: " I can't understand how you can do that to the person you love." I believe that people who cheat, didn't love you to begin with. They are very deceiving people.
You need to get to know a person in order to trust them. After knowing them completely, then it is your choice whether to trust them or not. Never trust someone right away.
2006-10-10 02:14:36 · answer #4 · answered by mjangel28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people are going to argue with me on this one, but... The problem is you. Not that you drive men to cheating but the kind of guys you date cheat. Women (and men) who get cheated on get cheated on because they date cheaters.
A similar situation is women who go from one abusive boyfriend to the next.
What does love have to do with it? Nothing, faithful guys don't cheat because of who they are regardless of who they are dating.
How do you tell if a guy is going to cheat? Well in your case, if you are dating him. How do you meet guys? at bars? or church? Do you date guys with girlfriends? Do you get serious quickly? Do you walk away if he doesn't treat you well?
Look at the stats all guys don't cheat. Some women will date five guys and not a one will cheat. Other women will date five cheaters. You like cheaters, but you don't like getting cheated on however, they come together.
2006-10-10 02:18:13 · answer #5 · answered by uncle frosty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Humans will be humans! Keep in mind that animals do that sort of thing. Yes, there are men out there that don't cheat, but they are usually the group that have been cheated on themselves. So they tend to be a little jealous and possesive.
2006-10-10 02:10:15 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO all men don't cheat. As far as the rest goes, when a man is really into you, and happy, he won't. Try being friends first, or be totally honest with him, if he runs he wasn't the right one for you at all.
2006-10-10 02:05:34 · answer #7 · answered by David S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all men cheat...but you cant really tell until they get to really know you and you get to really know them...i maybe young (22) but I have never cheated on anyone in my life...when i am with someone i am with that person not with some other chick...i dont look at another girl when she is around...i dont even look at another girl when she is not around...so not all men cheat and you cant tell who the cheaters are
2006-10-10 02:20:03 · answer #8 · answered by mschwertner69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's in all men to cheat...depends on the circumstances...if youre the type of person that les themselves get cheated on its gonna be a lot easier to cheat on you...the problem might be with you...start standing up for yourself more
2006-10-10 02:05:03 · answer #9 · answered by lykins6412 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men cheat. It just so came to happen that you just land on such kind of men. Broaden your horizon. Try dating both good-looking and not -so-good looking men. You may have your luck with men of pleasing personalities.
2006-10-10 02:06:36 · answer #10 · answered by jitterdog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋