2006-10-09 18:42:06 · 14 answers · asked by Michael A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
once a cheater always a cheater
2006-10-09 18:45:10 · answer #1 · answered by lori b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the person who's been cheated on. I could never trust a person again after they've cheated on me or cheated me out of something. It's not that you don't want to trust the person, but after he or she has "polluted" the relationship with lies, deception, dishonor, and disrespect, it's hard to believe in him or her again. You don't know what's on the person's mind. You don't know if he or she can change or will change because there's no way possible to know what's going on inside of that person's mind.
You would have to "test" their love often. You may even feel that everytime that person is away from you, you risk being cheated on, so it may make you crazy trying to believe in them but at the same time trying to keep up with them or know his or her whereabouts.
Find out what the person is looking for. What does he or she want in a man or woman. Do you have the same goals and aspirations? Can you deal with each other's bad habits? Etcetera. If you can give the person what he or she wants and needs and do what you can to try to please him or her, then there is less of chance that they might be interested in someone else. This can help ease some of worry or anxiety about being cheated on.
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2006-10-10 01:58:35 · answer #2 · answered by mo2dajizzo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Of course not. Think about it, you dont even have to ask. It is common sense. The action of asking everybody if there is still a faint hope of trustworthiness in such a person is an act of desperation, and a cry to all tha translates to " How could I have misjudge this person and comepletely trusted him or her with my heart and entire being?"
Admit defeat, cry, grieve, and move on. I hope you will find someone more worthy of you.
2006-10-10 01:52:27 · answer #3 · answered by QuiteNewHere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to? Cheating is like a can of Pringles....Once you pop you cant stop. If you let the person get away with it that will only prove to them that they can walk all over you and they will do it again. Did she confess or did you catch her? Well I dont think she really wants you alone. You should just let it go.
2006-10-10 01:50:32 · answer #4 · answered by zebalbanangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can in time, but for a long while you will not and you may find yourself checking out their whereabouts, etc. Eventually, trust may be regained but only if there's no more cheating.
2006-10-10 02:27:27 · answer #5 · answered by nobluffzone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband cheated on me once right after we got together. Him told me right away and knows he messed up big time. But, I still trust him with my whole heart. It depends on the guy and your gut feeling.
2006-10-10 01:46:07 · answer #6 · answered by cascade_waterfall04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just as you can trust a thief to steal, you can trust a cheater to cheat.
2006-10-10 01:51:58 · answer #7 · answered by Holden 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.i have tried to trust my boyfriend again for a while now but the past is always on my mind.it is just not the same anymore.i thought time would help me forget but it is like scar in our relationship.i hope that one day i can trust him again, i have left it up to God because he knows if this guy is the one for me.
2006-10-10 01:58:51 · answer #8 · answered by morenita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say NO. it just wont work out. a person makes a choice when they do that, and down the road they will make the same choice over and over
2006-10-10 01:46:02 · answer #9 · answered by spuds_suds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope..and if you do..you're either really devoted and it might be that you WANT to, or that your'e indescribably idiotic.
2006-10-10 01:46:37 · answer #10 · answered by Vicki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋