all the girls who come in my life as lover gone without saying any strong reasons and i suffered a lot by loosing eachone of them i never cheated anyone always loved sincearly during the relationship i never looked another girl for love concentrated only in one at a time i also informed my love to my family and tried my level best to make it possible i am physically fit and tryed to give my lover all that which they need.
2006-10-09 18:38:40 · 16 answers · asked by anish 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As you are saying that all the girls leave without giving any reasons then it must something that you are doing wrong. Hence, you need to do a bit of introspection and find out what it is that makes the girls treat you like this.I think it will better if you ask one of ex-girlfriend about that reason.
2006-10-09 18:46:03 · answer #1 · answered by Friend 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Though the information is not adequate enough to arrive at some concrete conclusions, it is responded as follows:
Handome - does not matter much in relationships.
Caring - Very subjective; you need to know from the other person's point of view.
Loving - Fine but again very subjective in relationships.
Intelligent - This seems to be a problem area. One needs to be wise and one must forget that he/she is intelligent. Relationships do not need this trait as a foundation. Of course; it is appreciated in general. NEED TO WORK ON IT & MORE SO ON YOUR SELF EVALUATION. Let the other persons decide and get rid of the perception. LOVE IS A MATTER OF HEART NOT HEAD.
I hope you've got the answer to it...
2006-10-10 03:26:35 · answer #2 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've made an all-out effort to find your match with little success, maybe it's time to rethink your approach toward searching for true love. Remember sex is not the only thing girls have on their minds, they are looking much beyond/ Here you'll find five common mistakes people make in the dating game. If one or two sound familiar, don't beat yourself up. Just recognize that you deserve better and commit to making a change for good.
1. If you think love will never find you, it won't. many people whose romantic disappointments have left them convinced there is something inherently unlovable about them. They say things like: "Who would want me anyway? I'm sure I'm going to wind up alone."
Obviously you are are as worthy of love as you and I. (Yes, we're worthy!) But they've come down with something so awful it can keep them solo for years to come: self-fulfilling prophecy, or SFP. SFP isn't contagious but it will make potential dates run the opposite way. It's an insidious disease. Physically, it leaves the sufferer untouched. But the more one walks around saying, "I will never find love," the higher the odds that expectation will come true. Contrarily, the sunnier one's thoughts — "I'm such a cool, happy person that I'm bound to find love" — the sunnier the forecast for a romantic future.
If you're among those throwing one too many pity parties, get busy: Start a journal. Each day write down something lovable about yourself. It will get easier with time. You can even consider calling or emailing a few close friends or relatives, so they can share reasons they think a girl would be lucky to have you. Level with them about why you're making this request, and they'll probably be happy to help. Whenever a negative thought threatens to invade your mind, replace it with a positive one.
Uncover the other love mistakes that might be keeping you single right here:
2. Kick the bad-boy habit. Good girls have not vanashied, they exist in bulk. The trick is learning to both recognize and want a girl of worth. One day you will meet a girl who would look at you like you are a treasure."
3. Repeat after me: Love is not a synonym for leash.
Wanting your partner to be with you 24/7 is not realistic or fair, many women feel abandoned or unloved if their other half has needs (say, for male camaraderie or occasional solitude) that can't be fulfilled by the relationship. The happiest couples allow each other breathing room to grow. The more dynamic their lives apart (in terms of jobs, hobbies, friends), the more they'll have to share with each other when they get together.
4. Don't commit emotional infidelity. It is vital that your partner be someone you treat with courtesy and kindness. If you tell all of your favorite jokes and "bad day" stories to friends, what will you have left when you meet your girl? It may sound crazy, but there is a premium on a person's time and energy — there is only so much of it to go around — and if you spend yours with someone else, you're potentially hurting your relationship. Even worse is betraying your partner's confidences with a male friend or coworker.
5. You're wrong if you need to be right. If you and/or your partner can never admit to being wrong, you'll win a few rounds of arguments but you'll never win much satisfaction. Apologizing isn't a sign of weakness. Love does mean occasionally having to say you're sorry.
2006-10-10 02:37:10 · answer #3 · answered by Rahul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient, If you're the real deal, the right girl will be wowed by you. Women want bad boys for the excitement, but most would say the good decent men are the ones they want to mary. Good guys need to learn how to keep the relationship fresh & fun. Most women love it when a man helps around the house. I'm seriously saying u will see a marked improvement in her mood... Try it!!!
2006-10-10 02:15:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
from your question I can see that you are self centred. you maybe loving , caring, etc. but you should not say it ; maybe you are giving in too much to the other person to please the person[ladies see such individuals as spineless].
To be in a relationship one needs to be aware of the other persons ways and also you need to be your normal self. donot go out of the way to make things happen and donot be in a hurry. first try to have a simple friendship with the person; get to know the person ; try to see what the person is looking for in the friendship; and be patient . you will definetly find your love. all the best
2006-10-10 01:53:36 · answer #5 · answered by ruth esther 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hi anish,i think if u r seriously in love with a girl the relationship should last.but u say all the girls who came in ur life have left u.dude,how many girlfriends have u had?i am sure u must not be in love with all of them.try to find ONE girl who u can love forever.i am sure then ur relationship wont go wrong.
2006-10-10 03:42:38 · answer #6 · answered by Survive_each_Session 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think u r intelligent. U R NOT. Intelligent persons don't face this trouble. Now. being nice, caring blah blah blah... suffocate the person, & they dont know y they r uncomfortable. Be natural(its very hard to be by the way) & ATTRECTIVE. girls melt at 560*C.
Be tough, badboy, jerk, pleasent, unprectable & funny. Don't run after them or try to please them. Have self respect. & MELT GIRLS. I PROMISE THEY WOULD QUARREL & EVEN ADJUST TO BE WITH U.
2006-10-10 02:47:12 · answer #7 · answered by raj r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you love yourself more than you love the girls your with. Try to love them too. You might get better results.
Sorry to sound so mean but it's true.
2006-10-10 18:19:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some girls just don't appreciate nice guys. they want a bit of bad boy and probably you being nice and with intelligence you are not their type. i think they don't know what they are missing. you will find someone who is yr equal one day. be patient. read tips on dating and more to help you on this site
2006-10-10 01:49:30 · answer #9 · answered by honey 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It seems that u are trying too hard just be ur natural self & everything will be ok
2006-10-10 02:40:01 · answer #10 · answered by dgp_snk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋