We are in an interracial relationship. She's black and i'm white. We always get rude comments and stares from family as well as strangers. Alabama is not the best place for interracial couples, but i really want to make it work with her.
2006-10-09 18:33:59 · 7 answers · asked by Alex K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your always gonna get that. ...so just ignore them and let her know that those comments do not affect you and do not change how you feel about her...she should feel the same way too
2006-10-09 18:37:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is help you gf develop a healthy self-image. The more someone accepts themself, the less they'll care about the opinions of others.
If she does not develop a healthy self image... get out of the relationship. If she can't love herself, she'll never be able to truely love you.
2006-10-10 01:39:48 · answer #2 · answered by not2hard24get 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love each other race shouldn't matter. And honestly it no one elses business, they aren't the ones in the ralationship. Tell her to toughen up a little, anythind worth having is worth fighting for. Good luck
2006-10-10 01:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by chinadoll31645 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her something like this
You have absolutely no control over what other people think.
You do however have control over what you think and the way you see things.
People are going to talk sh!t and be negative regardless of what you want, you have the decision to let it influence your life or not.
2006-10-10 01:43:28 · answer #4 · answered by tightlies 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that in "LOVE" there is no racial discremination weather you are white and shes black. Go for it, enjoy the love that you feel with each other dont mind what other people say. Love conquers all.
2006-10-10 01:37:45 · answer #5 · answered by jacky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on her belifes. tell her she is important to you and that it doesnt matter what other people think. even though i dont believe in it myself thats the best you can do is just tell her straight out that it doesnt matter what other people think and mabey ask her why it bothers her so much
2006-10-10 01:37:00 · answer #6 · answered by kitty45342 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have been there. Just make her drive you around. That ought to disspell the stereotypes.
2006-10-10 01:37:20 · answer #7 · answered by Steve S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋