I don't want to break them up... I don't even know if I want anything out of it. I just am wondering if I should let him know... because everytime I see him.. I light up and he just interests me. I definately don't want to be a bi&#h and try to "steal" some girls boyfriend.. but I sort of want him to know.
2006-10-09 18:20:46 · 17 answers · asked by Sabrina ♥'s Bono 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Think about all that is important to you.
Is it not possible that there is not SOME ONE or MORE unattached guys who would also interest you?
Why do you have to try to get THAT particular guy? Is it your own selfish desire?
What is the right thing to do?
Do the right thing, woman.
2006-10-09 18:23:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sabrina, if he has a girlfriend, out of respect, you should not tell him. There's this thing called temptation that guys cannot resist. If he finds out that you have feelings for him, he might be tempted to try to start something with you. He might not, but why take that chance? No, don't tell him. You wouldn't want some girl telling your boyfriend that she has a crush on him. Don't do to others what you wouldn't want done to you. Just forget it. If you really don't want anything out of it, then it wouldn't be important that you tell him, would it?
2006-10-10 01:26:28 · answer #2 · answered by SheDevil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got 3 words for you. Recipe... for... disaster.... Just for the fact that you even came to web with a question like this lets you know that you shouldn't. And I'll be honest with you. Cuz it happened to me. If you are hot , as soon as you let him know than he will look at you differently than it's ON. Cuz us men. We can't handle it know ing that a woman has a crush on us. To you it its just a crush. But we hear " hey here is an easy lay for you" Don't Do IT.
2006-10-10 01:33:21 · answer #3 · answered by Nepolean Dynamite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want them to break up, why would you care if he knows? You want him to know because you want to know if he is interested in you. He has a girlfriend, so who cares if you like him. Hopefully, that's what he will let you know when you tell him.
2006-10-10 01:24:37 · answer #4 · answered by divinestine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you were in his girlfriend's shoes, would you want other women telling your boyfriend about how much they liked him? i wouldn't want that, because it is disrespectful to her because you know about her. also, what is telling him going to do? how would you feel if he just listened, smiled, and still kept his girlfriend? that would suck, not to mention be humiliating to you. until he breaks it off with her, and tells you first how much he likes you, let it just be a crush and keep it quiet. hope it works out for you.
2006-10-10 01:27:12 · answer #5 · answered by dream 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, you want to be a bii ch and break them up. You want to tell him to see what the chain reaction will be. Heard this one? Two's company and three is a crowd,
2006-10-10 01:26:18 · answer #6 · answered by devora k 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,dont break his relationship coz it is not good for both 3 of u.Assume you on the side of that girlfriend he have.Try to look for another alternative.
2006-10-10 01:25:52 · answer #7 · answered by DAVID L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! He's off limits. How would you feel if you were in his gf's shoes & had some chick comin up to him to tell him that she likes him? Come on. That's definitely not a good thing.
2006-10-10 01:23:51 · answer #8 · answered by Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't tell him. Just be his friend. And if they break up someday, let him know then.
The only reason to tell him now would be if you are trying to break them up, and you say you're not trying to do that.
2006-10-10 01:24:31 · answer #9 · answered by locolady98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, why not just leave it alone. If he dropped her for you. He might do the same to you. Direct your interest to someone else. How would you feel in HER shoes?
2006-10-10 01:23:16 · answer #10 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋