2006-10-09 18:13:03 · 4 answers · asked by mossk_2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is not just because my heart is broken we have been dating for 3 yrs and was talking about marrage a matter of fact I was goin to ask her @ Christmas. Know she says she just don't have the same feelings and needs the time to find herself in the mean time another guy has showed up she says there just friends but she says she is trying but she spends more time with him than me so it makes me really nervy. I know it isn't just because my heart is broken it has been broken alot before this is different.
2006-10-09 18:51:18 · update #1
It is not just because my heart is broken we have been dating for 3 yrs and was talking about marrage a matter of fact I was goin to ask her @ Christmas. Know she says she just don't have the same feelings and needs the time to find herself in the mean time another guy has showed up she says there just friends but she says she is trying but she spends more time with him than me so it makes me really nervy. I know it isn't just because my heart is broken it has been broken alot before this is different. She still wants to stay friends and says she still does have feelings for me and she still said that she loved me until this guy started hanging around. reallize this is the story in a nut shell. all i no is that i love her and cant' let her go please give me some ideas to help.
2006-10-09 19:03:30 · update #2
its not up to you. You can't make someone want you, or love you. Even if she loves you there may be things she can't handle, or won't tolerate. That old saying, if you love something set it free is good advice. Hopefully you will see that all things turn out for the best......
2006-10-09 18:18:17 · answer #1 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no magic answer. You have to speak to her and tell her exactly how you are feeling, that is all you can do until she tells you whether or not she returns those feelings. Most of us have felt this desperation at one time or another, because it is usually one person that is breaking the heart of the other one. A broken heart is never easy, but you must remember that breakups are a natural part of dating. People date to find out what qualities they are looking for in a lifetime partner. You will most likely always love her, but not all loves are meant to last a lifetime. I wish you both happiness whether it be together or apart. Talk to her, get closure, and take care of you.
2006-10-09 18:25:42 · answer #2 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if she dumped you, you wont get her back but if you dumped her just say you made a stupid decision
2006-10-09 18:16:57 · answer #3 · answered by nonya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go and see..........if she is meant for you she will return back herself.........the more you will chase her the more you will lose her.
2006-10-09 18:16:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋