I started working a few months ago and my boss transferred from another place about the same time I started. He's really young, not much older than I am, and he seems interested in me. At first it ws just glances where we would hold each other's gaze for a few seconds and he would smile at me..but recently he has started to call me babygirl when no one is around. I might be misreading this..but sometimes I stay late at work because two people have to be in the office at all times..and so I stay with him until he is ready to leave..and we sit in his office while he works together. He sits very very close to me with his leg nearly touching mine..I am almost positive that he is interested..and I want him to make a move on me..or I want to make a move myself..but it has to be fairly unobvious if I do it..I want to send the right signals to him..but I don't know what to do next. Help anyone!
2006-10-09 18:08:19 · 7 answers · asked by DaddysLittlePrincess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're doing fine so far... next move...
1) Ask him out. Because you'll have a more lasting relationship.
2) Drive him crazy by confusing him (he'll ask you out). This can be done by retreating and no longer allowing him to "own" you, or that you are acting like you are immune to him (gains strong respect). This strategy may not last long (you will lose interest, since he'll beg for you), and is risky (especially if he is a "gentleman" who knows the rules).
3) Show him stronger affection through body language (your true emotion), compliment him a little (stroke ego), and let him know your feelings (I mean give him more clues). Wait for him by doing this consistently for at least 1 week or more. This will test him, to see if he's available, interested, and tell him that he should ask you out because he's now more sure that you are the one. If he doesn't, then what do you have to lose? He wasn't man enough.
Choose wisely, since I know both of you are working together at the same office.
2006-10-09 18:28:39 · answer #1 · answered by DN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many rules and regulations concerning sexual harassment in the work place. Since he is the boss, any move that he makes could be mistaken for sexual harassment and he has to watch himself. Sexual harassment is from someone that has power over another person. Since he is your boss, then any overt comment could be considered harrassment. You do not have any power, you are the employee. So you can be as forward as you like. You are not in a position of power over him.
Just ask him point blank. "Is there a company policy preventing employees from dating each other?" If the anwer is no, then ask "How long am I suppose to wait before you ask me out before I am forced to come to the conclusion that you are not interested?"
It can be difficult to work together if the relationship does not work out. I can see why he would not rush into things.
2006-10-09 18:19:27 · answer #2 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"So, he instructed me to return in after type at present so shall we "talk my grades," and on each and every occasion i could attempt to flirt with him, he'd appear like he became uncomfortable or something. Why is he doing this?" - Your a pupil and he's a instructor. you understand it is unlawful for a instructor and a pupil to have any variety of courting different than a delightful one. "he's barely approximately two times my age, so what's the concern?" - you should be f*cking stupid in case you have not observed previous circumstances between pupil and instructor family. You get in worry and so does himself. you're penitentiary bait! He can bypass to penitentiary for an prolonged time. You wanting him is going to make your lives confusing and intensely dramatic for the period of the entire lives. "What ought to I do to make useful that we are the two on a similar web site?" - which you would understand him and function a crush and sh*t. yet you having a courting is immoral and unlawful. you have a delightful courting, yet not something extra. "ought to I make a flow on him?" - NO! "maybe tell him i'm puzzled on the anatomy section and see if he can show me a thank you to do it?" - in case you are trying this, i will call you a skank and a sl*t for even attempting to make a flow on your instructor in a sexual intimate way.
2016-11-27 03:56:34 · answer #3 · answered by dungey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be nice and act like you are comfortable around him.You dont have to make the first move but if you did he would be delighted im sure.You know how things are going and if the moves are to be there then you should know.I hope you can make out what im trying to say. You know better than we do as to when to make the move. Enjoy your time with him. Feels good in your heart dont it?
2006-10-09 18:17:13 · answer #4 · answered by Billy T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never advocate dating a coworker, but if this is what you want and you think he wants, lots of playful physical contact. Tap his arm or leg when he says something funny. Look him in the eye for one extra awkward second beyond what is necessary.
2006-10-09 18:32:53 · answer #5 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might be sending the right signals, but he realizes that he is your boss. He doesn't want to cross the professional line, and put his and your jobs at risk. That is why he is not receptive
2006-10-09 18:14:25 · answer #6 · answered by speedysundevil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a move
2006-10-09 18:10:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋