I just met a guy yesterday and I already like him soo much. Yesterday was our first date, and we hit it off so well that we didn't want it to end and he ended up spending the night at my house and leaving this morning (we messed around but didn't have sex all the way). I don't think either of us were expecting to click so well. Well in the morning before he left he hugged me and said we should do something next weekend and then kind of stood in the doorway looking at me and smiled before he left. Then all day today I can't stop thinking about him and feel all tingly when I think of him. Well I was kind of expecting him to call me or email me today. Do you think he should have? Is it too soon? Or is he maybe trying to play it cool and wait awhile before he contacts me again? I'm afraid he has decided he doesn't like me after all.
2006-10-09 18:02:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl! Chill out!!! If you wait a week and he still hasn't called then you can let your mind race a bit.. heck then I'd call him! But, one day? Not even.. give it a rest. Guys don't really care if they talk to their girlfriends everyday.. I know mine certainly doesn't. If I questioned everyday that my now boyfriend of two years didn't call me in the beginning of our relationship I would be a complete wreck! He figures he saw you all night and into the morning.. he's letting you both relax for a bit and exactly what you said "playing it cool".
2006-10-09 18:08:57 · answer #1 · answered by moonshadow385 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! on the first date you were foolin around already? Did you click with something other than sexuality? Uhm...he might call, or he might not. It's hard sayin what was on his mind. Since you didn't exactly have sex all the way, I would guess that he's not a "hit it" type of guy, but it's hard sayin. If you can't stand it by tomorrow, give him a call.
2006-10-10 01:07:59 · answer #2 · answered by Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he may be waiting for you two to cool down a sec before moving on. If it was as hot as it seems he will call or email if he is a true gentlemen.
good luck
2006-10-10 01:07:35 · answer #3 · answered by jf850i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax... and get a grip... He'll call when he calls... If you can't bear it, give him a ring, doesn't have to be about what fun you had... you can talk plain like how's his day... about the next movie you'd like to see, good food haunts, etc.
2006-10-10 01:37:57 · answer #4 · answered by Hang Tough 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had ONE date with this guy and you're already messing around? Maybe he thinks you're too easy.
2006-10-10 01:05:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is just playing it cool
2006-10-10 01:05:36 · answer #6 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be in a hurry or seem to eager. take your time and be patient. read tips on dating and more to help you on this site
2006-10-10 01:05:56 · answer #7 · answered by honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your over thinking this to much...if he calls ,he calls or if you can't stand it anymore you should call him
2006-10-10 01:04:58 · answer #8 · answered by shorty82 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋