Why we gals start thinking of marriage just after few meetings with a man of our dreams?

Question

I met this guy on net chatted with him for months and finally we met in person.I have fallen in love with him the moment i saw him, he made me so comfartable i dont know but i have started thinking of getting married with him and that too when i dont know whether he loves me or not. sometimes i feel i should have grilled him ,tried asking for his marriage plans once then he said he cant even think of marriage for another 3 years but i am in love and this is making me miserable.What should i do as time is running out for me

Answer 1

It's just in our nature. We love the thought of true love, and we want to find it as soon as possible. Guys just always love to keep their options open. If he falls in love with you, then it won't matter girl! God works in mysterious ways ya know! Good luck hun

Answer 2

you may think your in love, but you really dont know a person until you live with him. I mean unless you guys are already living together. Trust me when i say i know where your coming from. It ended up not working out for the both of us. I was living with a guy who i thought i love but really he was an ***. So you should think twice if you want to marry a guy you bearly know. Its nice to dream of a marriage, just make sUre its the right guy

Answer 3

What do you mean time is running out for you? If you mean your biological clock is ticking, you have to know what your priorities are. If you are in love with him, and truly think he's the man of your dreams, then respect his timeline & see what you can learn about him in those 3 years. If you think that you can get married quicker to someone else, then this one is obviously not the man of your dreams and you need to cut him loose so that he can find someone willing to wait for him.

Answer 4

Because we want him all to ourselves, we think that someone else might take them from us. We want to be together always. We want too much because we are too emotional. I am learning that you can't always have what you want, but you can savor the feelings and experience and no one can take that from you, no matter what. If it's all you've got to live on, then so be it. Needy or whatever you want to call it. It is a feeling for another and anyone would be lucky to have it just once in their life, nevermind twice. Amen.........

Answer 5

Either you'll respect his timeline or move on. It's really not your choice to make as to when he's going to feel like getting married.

Answer 6

Girls figure if they're not wed by 30, they'll be stuck with some old ugly fat slob later on. Sad but true.

Answer 7

I didn't even read past your bold question, but it's because you are already considering him the man of your dreams.

Answer 8

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