ok, there is this boy in my class with whom i discuss assignment doubts. before every test, he asks for my notes so that he can study from them. when the teacher lectures we often end up playing staring game with each other. and when my friends don't come to class he sits with me. now the problem is that we can't talk to each other freely. he seems like a cool guy, but in front of me i think he feels little uncomfortable. so he can't respond to me nicely. he is always very polite to me though.i am a playful person. so i often end up teasing or harrassing him in friendly manner which he likes (i'm quite sure about that). i kind of like him. i think he is one of the sweetest boys i have ever met. now i want to be little intimate with him. how shall i do it? just want to attract him, but how?
2006-10-09 17:30:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is not the kind of guy who is into sexy stuff. and i don't have any wish to attract him in that way.
2006-10-09 17:34:32 · update #1
Tell him you had a dream about him. Nothing freaky or anything, but tell him you had a crazy dream that ya'll were playing frisbee on the beach or something...be creative because, as you know, you can dream of anything! (not meant to be dirty) :-)
2006-10-09 17:37:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
as a guy, i been there and i liked her but didnt wana spoil my friendship whith her. all u do is make the first move, guys like that. just say to him in a joking manner that ,wudnt it b nice if we were a couple?. if he responds then say 2 him, y dnt we become a couple, coz i like u alot.if he dsnt then ask y not, and tell him ur just wondering coz ur friend asked u, and that u just wanted to know thats all. that way u keep face and ur friendship. if u wana know more just contact me.
2006-10-09 21:14:11 · answer #2 · answered by raju k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really feel all this about him you should clearly ask him what you want to. if he is your close one he will perfectly understand you. and if he likes something in you then he will be happy to get more close to you but for these your attitude must be simple and clear. and if you like him seriously then try to get more close to him and check that he understand your feeling. if you find that he respect of your feelings then you should go ahead. but keep very simple view in your heart try to do what he like. and never be afraid in case he is not the right guy as you need you want, life is yours and it loves you so, love your life and enjoy it. all the best
2006-10-09 17:51:54 · answer #3 · answered by prem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just did, you just have to realised it. Why will that guy waste his time on you, if he's not interested in you. The question is, was it only he likes you as a friend? or maybe having his time to know you even more. You just have to be yourself, be patient,OK?
2006-10-09 19:04:38 · answer #4 · answered by josie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the opposite things dat u r doin right now.
dont give him much importance(jus to test him).
dont pretend that u lik him.
THE GOLDEN RULE IS: wen u hav something u dont know its true value,but wen u loose dat thing u came to know dat u cant liv without dat.
2006-10-09 19:49:39 · answer #5 · answered by Nick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not into sexy stuff then what are you looking for? A girl? Question yourself? Are you still in the closet? Come out of it!
2006-10-09 21:27:46 · answer #6 · answered by nice guy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask this Question to yourself
what sort of relationship u want with him?
Do u love him or u want to be friend only
What ever the answer is go and tell him!!!!!
2006-10-09 17:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by xen 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wear shirts that show cleavage, and tight, little mini skirts. Always drop stuff in front of him, then pick it up so he sees your azz. Then, look at him and giggle. Bring lollipops to class and suck on them in a seductive manner while you are staring at him.
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2006-10-09 17:35:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
well it seems that he likes to be around u so u should definetly ask him out if you can act normal around him and u like him i think that u guys are meant for each other. good luck :)
2006-10-09 17:34:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
hi dear dont be shy just tell him that u r in love with him and if he also have the same feeling u have it will work.go and tell him now good luck.
2006-10-09 18:52:15 · answer #10 · answered by anish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋