Every girl I like it seems to go ok with. I like them and I fall for them but always sell my self short, (although that is impossible in some areas), and think they don't like me so I just go along for a while becoming friends with them, they show interest in me, I am really happy that they are beggining to notice me and by the time I start flirting back they are over it and aren't interested any more. I AM A FU*CKING IDIOT. 3 times this has happened now. Is there any way for me to get the girl I want so badly to be interested in me again? MAN I AM A FU*CKTARD
2006-10-09 17:12:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You idiot robert m. You are at the wrong end of the ruler. I DO LET THEM KNOW I LIKE THEM, I'M NOT POURING MY HEART OUT TO THEM. MAN I AM A FU*CKTARD FU*CKTARD LOL FUC*KTARD
2006-10-09 17:25:05 · update #1
Fuc*ktard means just an absolute fuc*king idiot lol
2006-10-09 20:20:02 · update #2
ohh ooo spaghetti O's
2006-10-09 17:14:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is a F*cktard kinda like a poptard?? Quit being shy it will get you no where in the world nor in her life if you choose to not talk to her... Do not ever sell your self short. Don't go along with it, unless she makes you happy. No one wants a nice show to be put on. Emotions and Honesty will get you what you are looking for!! Eventually you will meet someone in your life that will allow you to come outside of your shell and be honest and open with her and the shyness will go away... Good Luck!!
2006-10-10 00:21:00 · answer #2 · answered by dolly51002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude stop your whinging and take some actions man!!!!
Here is the best advice I can give you. Woman like men with confidence, someone who will sweep us off our feet so to speak. We want men not little boys who play games and wait for us to make the first move or show some big sign that we are interested, we like the feeling that we are worth the effort and if you really like someone then you will take the risk and just be honest with them. If you like her then show her, ask her out, buy her dinner and prove to her that you are geniunely interested in her personality as well as her apperance. And if she does not feel the same way then learn for the next time you are intersted in someone. Make the first move and make them feel special and attractive. dont be all over them and constantly avaliable. Just a flirty message like Just wandering how your day is going? or What are you up to tonight? Wanna catch a movie and so on. If she answers with she has no plans then she is implying that she is avaliable to do something, so make your move then!
Good luck!!!
2006-10-10 00:24:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
These "women" are acting like bitchy little girls.
A lover, boyfriend, fiancee and husband should be a best friend very prominently.
It is not about flirting but about love and friendship with a REAL WOMAN.
You have to move on and away from those that rejected you, they are unworthy of you.
You can and will do better.
There are many fish in the sea, literally and figuratively.
Good luck, keep your head up, perservere.
Survive and thrive.
You are strong, you will be ok.
Peter
2006-10-10 00:19:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am hesitant to even help your ego out here, man, because you are either a lost cause looking for some much needed sympathy or a Narcissist looking for some much desired attention. If you really want a girl, quit hiding behind this f i ng up thing and go do something about it. It's about doing right, not not doing the wrong thing. Get it? If every girl left their men after one awkward moment or disagreement, we'd all be single.
2006-10-10 00:21:11 · answer #5 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Jumpy,
Girls like guys who are self-confident. You seem to be putting yourself down a lot. Stop doing that, Jumpy. You want a girl friend? Then stop trying to be just a friend to them.
Also, you need to check out the Tom Leykis radio show to learn more about what you should do. You definitely need to learn a little Leykis-101 to get more women in your life. Find out if this show is broadcast in your area. Here's his web site:
http://www.blowmeuptom.com
I hope that this helps you. Good luck and happy hunting.
--Rick
2006-10-10 00:33:44 · answer #6 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they aren't interested anymore, maybe it is because you stayed friends long enough for them to know that they just want to be friends..this is a good thing. You're supposed to start out friends and get to know each other, if the interest fades quickly, can you imagine how the relationship would have been as bf/gf?
2006-10-10 00:21:59 · answer #7 · answered by melanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age has a lot to do with this, Don't know yours. if you are under 20 don't sweat it. enjoy them all loosen up and have fun, don't get too involved with only one. Gain experience with all of them and when the right one comes along you won't have any trouble getting her. Lighten up and enjoy your freedom and experience life first before the old ball and chain.HA!
2006-10-10 00:19:25 · answer #8 · answered by Chuck C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Jumpy. Don't be afraid that you are "short" in some areas! Go down to your innercity park or bus station and meet a nice older gentleman. He will love you for what you are and will enjoy your youthful "spunk".
2006-10-10 00:18:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Jumpy, whats a FU*CKTARD? Is that Australian for sexy hot dude?
2006-10-10 02:55:23 · answer #10 · answered by isabela d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Understand this: If she pulls that bullshit "it's too late, im over it" then she wasnt good any way. Think about it man. True feelings don't have time spans. They dont just end.
2006-10-10 00:14:36 · answer #11 · answered by Lord of the Apocalypse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋