i met my best friend when i was 14 and instantly there was an attraction, but we'd always get close than runaway interstate. 3 years later he moved bak and we had an affaif that lasted on and off over 9 mths , once i fell pregnant to my partner it stopped. now we have a beautiful 9 mth olds son my b/friend is bak in the picture and i still feel the same as i always did. how can i stop feeling like this? what should i do?
2006-10-09 17:09:56 · 20 answers · asked by amy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first crush yes, first love no
2006-10-09 17:12:51 · answer #1 · answered by 2fine4u 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can get over your first crush. It took me 5 years of longing and hoping but I had already missed out because of my own insecurities, and she was interested in me in the beggining. I now am flirting with two other girls that I feel exactly the same way about and will find it hard to make my decision as to which one to choose. I suggest to just be friends with your first crush. It is unfair on your partner and your little baby to cause who knows what amount of trouble if you cheat.
2006-10-09 17:14:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are just feelings ... attractions. It shouldn't lead to him being your lover! Look, you have to face reality. You're happy with your partner and you had a baby with him for god's sake! Think, what good will it have if you had an affair with him again? Nothing! It'll ruin your life one day. How to stop that feeling? It's all in you! So stop thinking of him being more than a friend and attractions should stop.
2006-10-09 17:21:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am over mine,I married him at 19 and divorced 7 years later and had a beautiful son who is now 24 and I can't stand the boy's father,he was never there for my son!
2006-10-09 17:12:10 · answer #4 · answered by happy1here♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never realy get over your first love but you do have to get past it. You'll always remember your first time anything but you need to look to the future. If you are happy with your current love and you want it to last then you should listen to your heart and do what you know is right and what that is only you know.
2006-10-09 17:16:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I'm not over my first crush. My crush and I been together for 2 frikin years, and now we dont go with each other nomore, but we still keep in contact. Basically, ur first crush got ur heart FOREVER! ur 1st love is irreplacable. No matter how many bf's or gf's ya'll have, you still wont forget each other...
2006-10-09 17:17:00 · answer #6 · answered by Sexy n Spoiled ^^ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First crush yes, first love no. Stop staying in contact and stop asking for confusion. Think of you child and yourself. Stop staying in contact with this person grow up and get over it you are a mother now.
2006-10-09 17:17:10 · answer #7 · answered by chunkybunky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a girlfriend in college and one about five years ago. I still think of them both from time to time. So I am going to have to say no. However it is possible to move on with your life.
2006-10-09 17:19:57 · answer #8 · answered by asitcomes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your first crush didn't give you the bundle of joy...... move on...... if your not married and your not gonna stay with the father of your child then lots of luck finding a good person who'll love your child the same as you!
any decision you make now effects your offspring....... keep it in mind, good luck!
2006-10-09 17:16:48 · answer #9 · answered by magdalina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! 5 years later I still see her im my dreams
2006-10-09 17:12:52 · answer #10 · answered by Agnon L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop staying in contact..... your feelings will be there if you keep seeing him and talking to him. Just focus on your family..... Stop talking to him and eventually you'll get past it.
2006-10-09 17:12:11 · answer #11 · answered by Manita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋