how do i ask a girl that i like to go out with me, if i know nothing on the subject of talking to girls.
2006-10-09 16:55:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just starting a conversation is the first step. Walk up to her and say hello, ask her what is new and how she is doing. Any conversation revolving around her is a great start. Compliment her on her appearance and personality.
2006-10-09 16:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by chunkybunky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just go over and say hello to someone who interests you SMILE when you go over...ask her what she did this weekend and talk about something simple that you would talk to your friend/family about...like a new movie you saw or are interested in ... Ask her what type of movies she likes... See if she smiles back and is nice. If not, be polite, say goodbye and choose someone else until you find someone who is nice. Keep smiling and ask things about her...what movies do you like? what is your favorite food? what sports do you play or like to watch...things like that. If you like to do the same things. say short things like "I like to do that too" and then go back to asking her more things about herself. The best thing about talking to girls is to ask a lot of questions and let her do most of the talking...you won't have to say too much! Just smile and say nice things...compliment her if she has a nice idea and say "nice talking to you" at the end of the conversation. Always be polite! When you feel comfortable, say something like "You know that movie you said you wanted to see, would you like to go with me, because I'd like to see it with you"...and take it from there. Have fun PS how old are you?
2006-10-09 17:04:56 · answer #2 · answered by cadodevine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eye contact combined with some smiles in her direction. If she smiles back bingo! bro go introduce yourself, throw out a compliment or ask a question and you have started a conversation with a girl.
2006-10-09 17:01:26 · answer #3 · answered by TravisButtaz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just pretend the girl is a good friend. What do you and your good friends talk about? Ask her if she goes to movies and if so, would she like to go with you.
2006-10-09 16:58:19 · answer #4 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best way to start is to go up to her....or call her if you prefer and just ask. if you arent sure about that you can always have someone else ask for you but believe me the girl would rather have you ask yourself. you sound young to be so just walk up to her give her a nice complement...like she looks nice to day or something like that and then ask her if she's like to go to wherever with you....make sure to give a specific time...if you just say would you like to go out sometime shes more likely to say no.
2006-10-09 16:58:56 · answer #5 · answered by my101201cutiepie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have you seen american pie? there a character called oz and he learns that all you have to do with girls is ask them question bout themselves and listen. first start with some common ground. how do you know her? through school? ask how school is going or how she went with that assignment. then move on and ask what she like to do out of school. sports music, movies? see if you have something in common with her and the suggest hangin out together. its easy once you get the hang of it dude. goodluck
2006-10-09 17:00:30 · answer #6 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try conversation first, you might not want to go out if you have nothing in common to talk about. If your worried about getting shot down, dont be, lifes to short and you dont want to find out years later that she might have said yes if only you would have asked.
2006-10-09 17:02:10 · answer #7 · answered by eric s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds trite and corny but you have to BE YOURSELF and I mean totally yourself.
Play to your strengths and interests.
Discuss what interests you which you beleive also interests her.
Healthy activities i.e. nature, sports, music, movies, the arts, travel, etc. seem to work if posed properly.
Go with your gut, heart, soul and mind.
Genuiness, truth and effort are appreciated.
Peter
2006-10-09 17:00:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best and short way is to be your self , not anyone else.
Say it your way.
Believe always that you will find someone to understand you like how you are . Believe me do it like this .
2006-10-09 17:01:04 · answer #9 · answered by hebatallah n 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well u could start talkin to girls an be really sweet
the sweeter u r the more she will like u
2006-10-09 16:58:23 · answer #10 · answered by emoanimals 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋