He's white and i'm black but that shouldn't matter right? Or at least that's what i thought......
2006-10-09 16:46:57 · 23 answers · asked by Monica S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know what? Your right it shouldn't matter but some people are just ignorant and can't get it through their thick heads that God made us all and to him there isn't one color thats better or worse than the other. What matters is whats on the inside. My grandmother used to say Pretty is as Pretty does. In other words if you act beautiful on the inside then you'll be beautiful on the outside. Don't worry about what other people think, if the two of you like each other and get along who cares. Go for it.
2006-10-09 16:56:42 · answer #1 · answered by flutterby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me **** people that dont believe in inner ratial love! It doesnt matter as long as ur happy, be a ***** and stare back lol Ive went out with 2 black guys in my lifetime so far! the last one we broke up because of what other ppl thought! So dont let it come between you and your mate.
2006-10-09 17:09:09 · answer #2 · answered by madkittykills 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for u to not believe ur asked that questions makes me know that your parents raised u very well, problem is other people dont see or raise there kids the same way, sorry 2 let u know but u have 2 get used 2 it, it is not gonna stop, i am glad 2 read that it doesnt bother u , u will soon realize that people r stupid and dumb and ignorant,but u will also realize that there r people like u and ur bf, that make sense out of love , good luck.
2006-10-09 16:53:15 · answer #3 · answered by q45dip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they are ignorant and old fashioned and also prejudice, just ignore them or better still look at them and smile and ask how their day is doing ? That should make them look the other way. Some people will never accept different races being together. Don't let people bother you, get used to it because you are going to go through that the whole time you two are together.
2006-10-09 16:55:27 · answer #4 · answered by lisa b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think that it should matter at all. i'm white...i've never dated a black guy but i was always open to the possibility...i'm sorry for you but you will have to get used to it as you probably wont stop being stared at anytime soon...even though it shouldnt matter...i'm 24 and to people in our generation and younger it probably doesnt matter much, but the older generations still seem to be set in their ways so until they change couples will be stared at. but you know what honey let them stare all they want...be proud that you are above their thinking and as long as he is a good man to you be proud that he is your boyfriend.
2006-10-09 16:52:14 · answer #5 · answered by my101201cutiepie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are still very closed minded no matter how much things change. In my opinion I don't date outside my race but I don't hate on people who do I mean if that's what makes you happy you know? I know that interracial relationships can take a big toll on a relationship but if you can handle it then who cares what people do.
2006-10-09 16:50:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
black, white, whatever color, it doesn't matter as long as you are happy with each other. some people are gonna stare because they're just stupid! and other people are gonna stare because they think you look good together. just be confident in your relationship, and don't let other people get in your business.
2006-10-09 17:01:39 · answer #7 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it shouldn't matter, and I commend you for feeling that way! Try not to let the others bother you ... there will always be people who disagree with things others do. Just do what makes you happy!
2006-10-09 16:53:28 · answer #8 · answered by sexy_lil_butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the same with me and my boyfriend, except I'm white and he is black. People are ignorant. When they stare, I just figure that they are jealous. Interracial relationships are beautiful!!! Dont let those ignorant people get you down. :)
2006-10-09 17:21:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothin wrong with the idea of you and your boyfriend skin colors people will stare but don't worry as long as you like you boyfriend and he likes you you shouldn't care what other peolple think let them say what hey want to some people are just cruel
2006-10-09 16:55:48 · answer #10 · answered by rayray17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋