2006-10-09 16:36:09 · 18 answers · asked by secret admirer.. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
you don't stop it !!!
true love always finds its way back
if the love between the two of you is true the marraige will dissolve itself, but don't make him think twice about you by doing something foolish.
2006-10-09 16:40:44 · answer #1 · answered by curly0107 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your secret love is marrying someone else , then you must or are defendly a secret, forget this person ( I know it's hard to do sometimes)I've been there before and now I'm glad I did not say anything. He was no good and very abusive, now doing time.
2006-10-09 18:09:12 · answer #2 · answered by memom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she/he has gotten to the wedding stage, be a grown up and recognized that you blew it and back off.
Just because you think you love him/her doesn't mean that they know you exist or care.
Or you could just tell them and instead of it being like it is in the movies, you could just cause even more stress at an already stressful time in his/her life.
2006-10-09 16:43:02 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't. Tell him/her before the wedding your true feelings. If they reciprocate, good. The wedding might be off, and you have a clear conscience.
If not, then it wasn't meant to be for you and them. But don't destroy THEIR happiness. He/She will never forgive you, and then you have lost a friend as well.
2006-10-09 16:46:45 · answer #4 · answered by rouschkateer 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Actually there are many ways..thousands ways...the real question is, can you bring yourself to do it???Looks like youre a little too late, why dont you try to approach him/her earlier??where were u before???Well, only miracle can bring u n ur loved one together
2006-10-09 23:59:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try "smokin his pole" in front of the wedding party. I know when I did it caused some comments!
2006-10-09 17:04:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
TELL him how you feel before the wedding. After its too late.
2006-10-09 16:39:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
There's an old saying "If you love something, set it free. If it comes back to you, it will always be yours. If it doesn't, it never was."
You don't. If you love her, you let her go. If she comes back to you, it's meant to be.
2006-10-10 05:11:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't, if this person wanted to be with you, they would be with you. Instead they are marrying someone else, leave it alone.
2006-10-09 20:48:48 · answer #9 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love them, you won't do something to hurt them or make them unhappy. It's as simple as that.
2006-10-09 16:45:02 · answer #10 · answered by Courtlyn 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋