im was dating this girl for 8 months we got hook up because she want to leave her exboyfriend, so she left him and start dating me and then she started to tell me that she is not feeling us as a couple, but as friends but she decided to stay and try to see if the relationship could work and the leave after 8 months, and be good friends, we still can on the phone, go out and she still come sleep over my house couple night but there is nothnig romatic going on between us i want to find out if she love me and i want to tell her how i feel what can i do to get her back
2006-10-09 16:36:07 · 4 answers · asked by yard kid 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u dont need her back u my friend were the classic REBOUND she never really had the intentions of staying with u , but she noticed that u cared alot more than she did and she is trying 2 b polite ,u should be friends only because she is not in it 4 u she is in it 4 herself she wants 2 use u as a security blanket my advice start hanging around other girls and see what and how she feels about that im sure she would not like it but hey like she said she wants 2 b "FRIENDS"
2006-10-09 16:41:58 · answer #1 · answered by q45dip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bud, I think you need to let this one go and find someone else who will appreciate you for who you are. It sounds like this lady is stringing you along and playing with your feelings.
Sorry for telling you something you probably didn't want to hear but I think it's best for you to hear it.
You will find someone better than her for you. Someone who will accept you and want to stay with you because you are yourself with her. So move on and keep your chin up.
2006-10-09 23:40:07 · answer #2 · answered by Red1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what you have to do is ignore her...sounds crazy but when you stop calling her and inviting her over she'll go crazy. when she asks to sleep over or w/e...keep making excuses. She will think you don;t care about her...it will work I SWEAR. Than once you're completley with her again..be sure to pay attention to her.
2006-10-09 23:40:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think she likes you. she is just finding comfort when she is with you
2006-10-09 23:41:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋