He is 37. Divorced twice with kids. Works alot, also participates in sports. Sadly my schedule is harder cause i work evening shifts. We meet for a coffee on Sundays, and then its until next Sunday...I know he has a past with relationships, but how can i know if he wants it all again, minus the kid part? Im also divorced with 2 kids....
2006-10-09 16:32:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Does he love me I want to know
How can I tell if he loves me so
Is it in his eyes ?
Oh no ! You'll be deceived
Is it in his sighs ?
Oh no ! He'll make believe
If you want to know if he loves you so
It's in his kiss
That's where it is
Is it in his face ?
Oh no ! That's just his charms
In his warm embrace ?
Oh no ! That's just his arms
If you want to know if he loves you so
It's in his kiss
That's where it is
It's in his kiss
That's where it is
Kiss him and squeeze him tight
Find out what you want to know
If it's love, if it really is
It's there in his kiss
How about the way he acts
Oh no ! That's not the way
And you're not listnin' to all I say
If you wanna know if he loves you so
It's in his kiss
That's where it is
It's in his kiss
That's where it is
2006-10-09 16:35:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, just take it slow. Why would you want to rush into love so fast. After being burned, nobody should want to dive in so fast until they are absolutely sure.
The fact he's been with you this long and is kissing you goodnight seems to me like he's trying to fit you into his life. It's hard. He is a grown man with a life and responsibilities, not some teenager diving headfirst into a love affair.
Take it slow...what's the rush anyhow. How can he not like you if he's dating you. I know you want more but don't push it. If after a year or so things are still so so then you may have a right to start expecting more...but 2 months! Give me a break...you're still in the early dating stage. Take the time and get to know him and his interests and don't do this just because you want so much to be loved again but because you too have really fallen in love with this guy. Two months is way too soon to tell how things will unfold for the long term.
Frankly with two divorces under his belt, this guy is doing something wrong. He must not be the type to fully commit...maybe you are picking up on this right away too...so if that is what this stand-off-ishness is about then you are right to question why...but just see how it goes. You can't force love when it's not there. Don't go trying to change anyone either...that's the worst you can do and at 37 with two divorces you don't stand a chance if that's the only alternative you're left with. Better to move on or just accept the relationship for what it is. Just date. I don't get the rush of wanting to jump into marriage again.
2006-10-09 23:38:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he s going out for coffee with you, he probably wants to get to know you. Seeing as he's been divorced twice..maybe he wants to take things alot slower...and make sure he finds who he really wants to be with this time. Being married twice he has probably learned alot about what he wants in a relationship.
2006-10-09 23:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just take it slow like you are . Not just for him but you as well. It could be possible that he is in love but I think that taking it slow is best cause 2 divorces means something went on 2 fast .
2006-10-09 23:36:28 · answer #4 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't really sound promising, sorry... I mean, if your really into someone, you make the time whether you have busy schedules or not, cause it's that important and cause it's a feel good being with them. Sounds like a friend is all this guys up for.
2006-10-09 23:35:47 · answer #5 · answered by dreamer1414 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him how he feels. Don't try to guess or read his mind. Honesty is the best policy. PS. Twice divorced should throw up a warning flag. I would be contacting ex-wives and friends to learn more about him.
2006-10-09 23:35:24 · answer #6 · answered by Lora D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only 2 months? He shouldn't be in love with you yet. What's the hurry? Just keep having fun and see where it goes.
2006-10-09 23:34:40 · answer #7 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SOUND LIKE HE JUST TAKE TIME TO GET TO KNOW YOU
SINCE BOTH OF YOU ARE DIVORCED WITH KIDS, HE TAKE
IT SLOW AND THAT GOOD. FOR JUST ENJOY THE COMPANY
AND SEE HOW IT GOES FROM THERE.
2006-10-09 23:38:23 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see if there's a real date involved. Maybe a saturday.
2006-10-09 23:35:28 · answer #9 · answered by zocko 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it more time love takes time
2006-10-09 23:34:18 · answer #10 · answered by smrhere 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋