I am not good at first impressions, when i walk up to a girl i like i freeze up and get nervous, please help.
2006-10-09 16:29:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just stick your finger up your nose.
Haha.. j/k
Just smile and say hi. It's okay to sweat a lil. It's actually cute!
2006-10-09 16:30:52 · answer #1 · answered by Your Wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably trying to accomplish too much, too quickly. Also, if you've totally flipped over a girl you've just met, you're better off not showing it, at first anyway. Say "Hi", chat with her for a minute, and leave. If you notice a sudden look of panic in her eyes as you're walking away, you've got yourself a bite.
2006-10-09 23:38:30 · answer #2 · answered by Allen Montgomery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude.
1st impression: self projection
2nd impression: conversation, charisma
u gotta look neat and tidy on the outside. that gives you one point for 1st impression. gals wouldnt wan to talk to a guy who looks like crap, would they?
following that..try to keep urself clam and let them do the talking. juz ask the gals the kind of questions they would normally talk for a long long time. u need to show a lot of interest and look em in the eyes sincerly when they are talking.
oh by the way, did i mention gentleman?
2006-10-09 23:35:53 · answer #3 · answered by sulaji84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Don't put a face on. Don't make things up. Be yourself. That is all any girl could ask for. Don't try to impress us. We know you guys way too much
2006-10-09 23:31:24 · answer #4 · answered by Jenna J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be you..dont try to be what your not...I know first time meetings are nerve wracking but dont try to be something your not, even if you are shy or do freeze up first impressions shows the real you...atleast to them...try and be your self....i know its hard but atleast if you do get with this person they wont see a diffrent you later on, which could be a proublem...good luck!!
2006-10-09 23:38:16 · answer #5 · answered by countryrose24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best impression is to be yourself, so you're not focusing all your energies in trying to present yourself as someone you're not. And try talking about something she likes. You don't have to pretend to like it too, but ask her why she likes it. Once you get the convo flowing, the rest should be cake!
2006-10-09 23:33:01 · answer #6 · answered by zesty4pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make yourself look helpful and don't waste a moment. That's what's impressive.
2006-10-09 23:31:29 · answer #7 · answered by LVieau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is let her do the talking, but don't let the conversation die. Also, don't just act interested in what she has to say, engage it and ask her questions about her interests. Trust me, it will pay off in the long run.
2006-10-09 23:30:52 · answer #8 · answered by Lita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember to be yourself. THink of a way to complient her, girl love compliments. Most people are just as nervous to talk to you.
2006-10-09 23:31:36 · answer #9 · answered by day dreamin baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend she is a long lost friend in your approach , it's not what you say it's
how you say it . Like speaking with excitement in your voice , not scary but sexy excited . Project it until you perfect it .
Life is like a play anyway , don't be phony ... girls can see through it .
2006-10-09 23:37:03 · answer #10 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋