I really like this guy and he likes me a lot we talk on the phone at least 7 times a day, I've liked him for 2 years now and he just now realized it, we've been talking and I think he's afraid to ask me out and I really want to date him, we have everything in common were even on the wrestling team together except I'm home schooled and this year is his senior year, what do you think I should do, I don't ask guys out they ask me and I've hinted to him many times I just don't know what to do. Any advice please
2006-10-09 16:26:48 · 11 answers · asked by amerine09 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
um u r on the wrestling team? any way just ask him out y does it have 2 be so difficult 2 do, if u have so much in common the what is it that is stopping u? just break that mold how is that u know about the mold that needs 2 be broken if u were home schooled, that makes no sense u should be totally unaware of the whole guys only ask girls out , if u like him that much tell him, u could lose out on the best thing in ur life.
2006-10-09 16:32:52 · answer #1 · answered by q45dip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk with him. Feel comfortable with him. he needs to feel the same with you. he will ask you out when he thinks it's the tmie and when he builds it up to. Look at it this way. You must really blow him away if he is that shy to ask you out. As long as you two are "dating" there is no need to rush him. I mean, it's not like you guys are looking for other relationships right?
2006-10-09 16:30:06 · answer #2 · answered by Jenna J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should "let time tell all", If he likes you, like you like him, he will ask you out, when he looks at you, smile, when he ask you a question, look him straight in the eyes, make eye contact!!
tell him that there's another guy who keeps asking you out, even if it's not true, and see if it gets his attention.
2006-10-09 16:32:47 · answer #3 · answered by missouri girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can ask him. forget about you're rule and just try to do it. ask him and tell him, this is our last year and then we'll be heading off to college, we might not see each other again...so do you want to go out and grab some coffee while we talk about colleges sometime. somthing causual since you're friends. hint it to him, he'll get the message. don't give up!
2006-10-09 16:31:12 · answer #4 · answered by chaos causer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this guy waits for the girl to ask him out. Ask him out and go dutch each pays for thier own meal and entertainment. Then tell him next time its his turn to ask and take you out.
2006-10-09 16:29:15 · answer #5 · answered by Lora D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him this: HEY WE SHOULD GO 4A COKE SOME TIME SOON MY TREAT.(If he wants any thing else on the date like a ff or hamburger he should pay. BUT i think he may go 4 it.
2006-10-09 16:30:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you dont ask guys out then you dont have anything to do but wait on him
2006-10-09 16:29:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is the shy type...and perhaps he is afraid in case he loses you as a friend ...just invite him out for coffee or whatever and tell him slowly how you feel ....good luck...i am sure he likes you too..
2006-10-09 16:32:10 · answer #8 · answered by amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him out
2006-10-09 16:32:02 · answer #9 · answered by all_canadin_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He really of being rejected and ask him out anyway!
2006-10-09 16:30:04 · answer #10 · answered by Crystal S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋