I moved away to university and I broke up with my boyfriend. (Reasons for breaking up: didn't want to do the long distance relationship, I didn't think it would be fair to either of us. I dont think it was being selfish, I think it was being realistic. He was never very affectionate towards me whenever we were in public, only when we were alone. He had a bit of a temper, but never took it out on me. Extremely stubborn.) However I do know that he loves me a lot because I told him I wouldn't have sex with him because I was saving myself and he respected that and said that he cared more about me than he did about sex. My problem now is that I can't stop thinking about him. I dream about him, daydream about him, and now here I am on yahoo asking you all about him. I miss him sooo much, I'm sitting here crying right now. But I'm scared. Do you think I actually miss him, or just miss the idea of him... having someone who really really loves you?
2006-10-09 16:24:22 · 10 answers · asked by deepwaters05 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We had been together almost three years. And he's pretty much the first serious relationship I've ever been in. I'm really kind of hoping this is why it's so hard for me to get over him, because I've never had to say goodbye to someone I love before.
2006-10-09 16:34:42 · update #1
You didn't mention how long you guys were dating, but now when I think about it... it doesnt really matter. It's perfectly normal that you miss him. It could be that you miss just having somebody next to you. Think about it. If you had a different guy next to you would you still think about him? Can you see yourself with somebody else? I don't think anybody here can really tell you what is it that you feel exactly, you will have to question yourself. Keeping yourself busy will help you stop thinking about him! Read, study, go out... do whatever...girlfriends help a lot... Well, Good luck to you! I hope you feel better, and don't cry, no guy is worth it... trust me...
2006-10-09 16:30:53 · answer #1 · answered by ~Dee~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i believe your just missing the idea of him being around. Sometimes the long distance relationships work but you really have to be in a truely loving relatioship where you both trust eachother and wont worry about what the other is doing. I was in love with someone before i moved away i trusted him but after i was gone i found out he started dating someone else. I was hurt but got over it. Its hard to move out of town and no one around but you start meeting new people. If the two of you are meant to be it will be. Be positive and maybe things will work out. good luck
2006-10-09 23:34:35 · answer #2 · answered by ice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u guys hv been together for 3 fine years and u didnt had sex. now thats really sth. im so damn sure he cares a lot abt you more than himself.
but are u juz missing him being by ur side? or u miss him cuz u really love him?
either way, time will tell.
my suggestion is that both of you should try to get back together again. if it really doesnt work out, its never too late for another break up.
2006-10-09 23:48:36 · answer #3 · answered by sulaji84 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I asked a similar question like this a couple of weeks ago. And I cried for a couple of days. But I had to keep reminding myself that I was better off. I also had to remember that I had good friends who were willing to let me cry on their shoulder, get me drunk, or take my mind off of him. You'll be over him soon. You might never forget him, but you find someone new when you least expect it and then it won't hurt so much. *gives you a big hug* Dry your tears sweetie. If you were my friend I'd bring you your favorite ice cream and we could watch girl power movies all night. I promise, it will only suck for a little while.
2006-10-09 23:33:18 · answer #4 · answered by Tericka 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... I think you miss both, but mostly the pass, yet, you wonder what it would be like to be with him again,...as you both might've grown up a bit. IT could be better, ya know? That's exactly how I feel about my ex... except I'm not really in love with him anymore, but I definately have more feelings for him than I've had for any other guy I've dated thereafter.
2006-10-09 23:28:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't worry, you'll work past it...don't cry! look, maybe you miss him. he seems to care so much about you. Maybe you should call him and tell him that you miss him, what you're doing and why you really broke up with him. maybe he's sitting here yahooing, daydreaming and dreaming about you too! don't give up, try to call him...
hope it works out okay!!
2006-10-09 23:28:38 · answer #6 · answered by chaos causer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you miss him and you are lonely. You could still be friends and keep in touch by e-mail, phone, and texting. Good Luck... Have fun making new friends at school.
2006-10-09 23:32:56 · answer #7 · answered by SS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was true love you never would have broken up and you mentioned better reasons for breaking up than the distance thing, oh and you need to get laid
2006-10-09 23:29:50 · answer #8 · answered by manfromblueriver 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You should write him ask him if he still loves u.
2006-10-09 23:27:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats what You get for Leaving him.
2006-10-09 23:27:59 · answer #10 · answered by Latino_Lifestyle 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋