my ex and i have our problems, but this new person promises me the world and to treat me like a king? but i love my ex and we plan to get together again but now things arent so good between us, and this other person looks tempting now... im confused
2006-10-09 16:17:55 · 9 answers · asked by amomg2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to decide who you would rather be with so you don't waste your time and theirs. If you and your ex are having problems, maybe it's time for you to see what else is out there...you and your ex did break up for a reason. If things don't work out with this new person, then maybe you were really meant to get back together with your ex.
2006-10-09 16:22:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, you and your ex broke up for a reason. My opinion is to go out there and play the field for a while (especially if you are young) I got tied down young and didn't get to see my options..although I AM happy now with who I chose.
Remember, the beginning of anything relationship wise is like a "honeymoon phase" but it all dies down in the end. The real test is when you find that one person that will stick BY your side through thick AND thin. One that will not run away when they sense a problem or conflict. Even the best of relationships have their arguements. All in all, your ex may be the one for you...but how will you know until you try? Remember distance makes the heart grown fonder. Just make sure what you want is what you get. You need to make yourself happy first and foremost.
If you two are meant to be...then you will be, but while you are not together explore by all means..but don't do anything that you will regret.
2006-10-09 23:36:13 · answer #2 · answered by coolgirl202 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All that glitters may not be gold. This new person could have hidden motives not good for you. You can love someone and be miserable with them; distance from the ex may be what is needed now and the new woman may be what you need to realize the better side of life.
2006-10-09 23:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by geri11066 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you prefer the relationship more with your ex , if you new person treats you so good ,you may be scared off by that . You are using the other person as a safety net , and simply using them .
2006-10-09 23:22:58 · answer #4 · answered by jacks_girl618 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big decision to make!!! And how long were you with this other girlfriend??? Naturally, the grass always looks good on the other side. Maybe you should try working this out first before starting something new!!! It might be worth a try!!!
2006-10-09 23:21:43 · answer #5 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confused!!?? It's quite alright to explore new ventures, just as long you follow the rules of temptation, keeping your hands and arms inside the windows at all times.... Are you confused now?
2006-10-09 23:24:08 · answer #6 · answered by Joe E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be confused. I sure he will be better for you than you old GF. Hes probably older and will appreciate you and your youthful "spunk".
2006-10-09 23:23:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes you ex, it aint cheating so check it out
2006-10-09 23:22:22 · answer #8 · answered by manfromblueriver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better chose the one you really think you are compatible with.
2006-10-09 23:20:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋