2006-10-09 15:55:05 · 32 answers · asked by ♥michele♥ 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
yes. it is awkward because i am a Christian, so even if i agree with what they are saying, they keep talking at me... talk to me, please, but do not talk at me!
2006-10-09 16:06:36 · answer #1 · answered by truth seeker 5 · 1⤊ 6⤋
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A number of people have preached to me, as I passed or asked me to stop, even knocked my door, I cannot remember being bothered by them, not because I simply do not care, but rather that I am accepting or respectful, of other people's belief even if it is not my own.
I have let passing preachers in my home, I have talked to people when I had the time in the street, but what I do as opposed to the usual I am busy or nod and pretend to listen techinque that many of us do, what I do is give my point of view on whatever they want to talk to me about, I ask them questions, if I do not agree, I tell the reason why.
It is surprising how many people will stop preaching when they are given some intelligent debate, especially outside,I have preachers run out of things to say to me, not because I am ignorant but because I asked deeply and faced them with my own beliefs, it has so far proved to have a very disarming affect on preachers.
As for people on their stand with microphones shouting, who is really going to listen to their message when they have to shout it at you anyway?, that caused me a brief period of ear discomfort as I passed if I was close.
But as with anything it depends apon the situation, if for example it was a social gathering, I would imagine that you certainly would not be the only one feeling uncomfortable, however it may be them who should be?, no one is disrupting their peace or space.
If the situation was one of a lonely or close proximatey and someone was making you uncomfortable, I would say so, make my excuses and be on my way. As people can be unpredicatble.
I do believe in peoples personal rights, while that means a right to belief it also means respecting other boundries and accepting the fact the have that right also.
Of course when you say a little uncomfortable, I am a little unsure whether you mean't just that you didn't like what they had to say, or if they where making you feel a little nervous, obviously I think that in a situation where someone is making you nervous, or giving you a bad feeling, it is far better to vacate wherever you are as soon as you.
I hope this was of some help or interest.
Warmest Regards Armand
2006-10-10 12:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
personally assuming I'm not signifigantly busy, I love it when they come to the door, one time I stood there and debated with them for 20 minutes. that was the longest any of em have lasted though... not sure wether I should be impressed or disappointed on that.
I'd say the most I've had in the "Uncomfortable" part would be when I found what they were preaching to be utterly revolting. that is, that I found it incomprehensible and morally disgusting that people could actually think those things, and worship a god that would have things like that.
2006-10-09 16:43:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Many times, and more than a *little* uncomfortable. I grew up a Catholic, realized that I personally found the whole thing utterly wrong for me, and have formed my own set of beliefs. I don't go preaching to strangers, or even to my own family, about my beliefs, so I expect everyone else to keep their religions to themselves as well.
The best way I've found to deal with it is to politely explain that it makes you feel uncomfortable and try to remove yourself from the situation. If they continue, which in most cases they do, then they clearly don't respect you and thus have not earned the right to be respected themselves, and it's time to let them know how you really feel about strangers telling you what to think.
2006-10-09 16:19:51 · answer #4 · answered by xfate_and_faithx 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
This depends on where you are and who you're with!!
If you happen to be in church and you feel uncomfortable, then I think the preacher is hitting a nail on the head!!
If you're out in the streets and someone comes up to you out of the clear and starts preaching, then you have the option of walking away.
If you're in a crowd and this person starts preaching to everyone, you don't want to be noticed walking away... then just stay for a bit, and then excuse your self for a potty break. Hopefully by the time you return, they'll be finished :)
2006-10-09 16:00:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
I am a JW and it sometimes feels uncomfortable but I appreciate when someone comes to the door. I had a person from another religion get 2 inches from my face and wanted to make sure I was "saved". Forcing I dont do .
2006-10-09 16:03:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Not uncomfortable but they have annoyed me. However I am not afraid to tell them to shut up I don't care to hear it and if they wish to preach do so elsewhere.
2006-10-09 15:56:55 · answer #7 · answered by larrys_babygurl_4life 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Yup. Several years ago.
Now, not anymore because I just answer them back with their own bible and the responses from the Quran.
They just shut up in total confusion or swear at me and say "You'll burn in hell." before walking away from me.
That sure gave me a rush. ;o)
I don't mind spirituality....just stop being preachy. More inner good, lesser dogma.
nuf sed.
Peace.
2006-10-09 16:01:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
is it preaching or sharing with you? sometimes when we share it's the Spirit convicting us that what is being said is the Truth. Preaching is for Sunday mornings from the pulpit, sharing is for one on one.
2006-10-09 16:02:03 · answer #9 · answered by Lover of my soul 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Only annoyed when they continue to preach even after I've made it clear that I'm not interested in what they're saying.
2006-10-09 16:01:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
Yes, it is as uncomfortable for me as it is for a non-christian. It would definitely be better if they would ask some questions first to find out where you are coming from.
2006-10-09 16:00:16 · answer #11 · answered by Makemeaspark 7 · 3⤊ 3⤋