I like this guy alot and every time we talk I get nervous and run out of things to say. Need help on what to say and what topics to keep going to I won't get nervous.
2006-10-09 15:53:09 · 27 answers · asked by buttercup 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like this guy alot and every time we talk I get nervous and run out of things to say. Need help to keep conversation going through the phone because we met on my vacation. He lives in Miami and I live in New Jersey. What do I do to keep chatting...
2006-10-09 16:04:27 · update #1
Here's an idea, instead of talking about things you like, get to know his likes from his friends, and brush up on those topics, then ask him something in regards to one of those subjects, and then he'll talk to you more, and have something to talk about. Trust me, he'll find you a lot more interesting if you talk about his interests, instead of your own . . .
2006-10-09 15:55:50 · answer #1 · answered by Prince Trunks 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When all else fails, talk about him! People LOVE to talk about themselves, so show interest in what he likes or is passionate about. This will talk the presure off of you and make him feel as though he can really TALK to you (most people just don't listen). Hopefully, he will return the favor and ask you a thing or two.
2006-10-09 15:56:47 · answer #2 · answered by JustTalking 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just the opposite of what you need to do. When you have nothing to say, leave. Leave on a high note, not after a long pause. Leave him wanting more. Be frequent and BRIEF in your dealings with him.
2006-10-09 15:54:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st = overcome ur nervous
2nd = find his hobbies, separate into some category so u can make some conversations from each one.
3rd = smile
4th = groom
5th = self confidence
6th = Be urself n love urself for what u r.
2006-10-09 16:01:28 · answer #4 · answered by Aii29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, ok this is the easiest question here to answer...... It doesnt matter what you say, im a guy just talk about him, and if he wants to talk about you that mean you hooked him, and he has interest.
Im a guy i know these things, and im a doctor...
2006-10-09 15:55:57 · answer #5 · answered by Dead_Flame 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's really simple Buttercup. Find out what he likes, hobbies, pets, cars etc. If he's a jock, try checking out his sport. You would be surprised on easy it can be when you have things in common
2006-10-09 15:56:20 · answer #6 · answered by marmie5452 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath and smile. Be YOU. He should like you for you, not for some act you put on to get his attention. When all else fails, adjust your bra ... gets them thinking in the right direction! *winks*
2006-10-09 15:58:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes i get nervous and i get into the same situation you are in...just talk about everyday topics...make jokes...talk about cool/funny/weird/annoying teachers? just be yourself. you`ll find things to talk about. try to relax + just talk to him like you would to a friend.
2006-10-09 15:59:27 · answer #8 · answered by shopisotonix11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax, you cant get too nervous, and start watching some sports also, it will give you something to talk about, girls that know about sports are so much better to talk to in my opinion
2006-10-09 15:55:03 · answer #9 · answered by Southie9 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Music helps.
2006-10-09 15:56:40 · answer #10 · answered by NYC-BIGCAT 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋