I'm a senior in high school and girls like me (I was asked to a recent dance by the consensus 2nd hottest girl in school), but ive never been involved SERIOUSLY (beyond hooking up) with a girl. Is there something different that girls want from a guy to date that I don't have? I'm a really nice guy, I dress well, I'm average looking...but there must be something that girls key on when looking for a guy to date. Hook me up, yall. Its my first question.
2006-10-09 15:44:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a great personality and a loyal,sweet guy.
2006-10-09 15:47:01 · answer #1 · answered by sugar n' spice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A fun and sweet guy that will listen, show a girl a good time, hold her hand, can make her laugh, make her feel safe. A girl that will be true will also look past the guys looks and will really love him for who he is and how he treats her/makes her feel.
2006-10-09 22:51:11 · answer #2 · answered by Meagan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is for the future...dont date a ton of girls or have sex with random skanks, this will be a turn off to your future wife.
Second get a really good paying job, its vvain, but women like money as much as men like sex and we women like to show off our homes,cars and yes our men who earn great money.
Nobody wants to marry the gas station attendant.
Third...be nice, not bitter.
Fourth, if for whatever reason you get a girl pregnant dont have her get an abortion and actually want the baby.
Fifth...DONT DRINK TOO MUCH OR DO DRUGS AT ALL.
2006-10-09 22:49:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever pursued a girl, calling her to ask her out and going out more than once with her? It is up to you to pursue her and let it be known that you want a relationship. If you take it seriously and really call when you are supposed to, show up when you are supposed to, and express interest in her, genuine interest that is, then I don't see why a girl wouldn't want a relationship with you. Girls want a guy who will listen and be there for them, they need security, someone to rely on, their "soft place to fall".
2006-10-09 22:48:29 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all no one really knows what women want, not even women! Each person (woman) is different in their likes and dislikes.
Personallity is probably the front runner with most women. It is very important to be yourself, respect others, and treat your lady as if she is the only person in the world............
2006-10-09 22:51:09 · answer #5 · answered by Chief 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women want "bad boys", whatever the definition of that might be. Act like you got ****, act confident, don't be nice (maybe only when not expected to), and either be funny or act very serious like you have something going...Party hard!!!
2006-10-09 23:07:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i don't know about the girls you know..but my girls and i like a guy who isn't that really scared to speak there mind about relationships...i like a guy who is kind,loving,friendly and isn't scared to tell me what's on his mind no matter what it is... maybe all you have to be is more outgoing...try asking a girl out acouple times as friends and then if you like her ask her out and start making conversations and tell her your can be very open once she get's to know you...
I HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT
GOOD LUCK
2006-10-09 22:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, some guys are relationship material and some guys are only good for sex. You rarely get both.
2006-10-09 22:49:31 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question of the ages. i'm not sure what that answer is but to get along with them you have to give them what they want, when they want it, as much as they want, and as often as they want it. then thank them for allowing you the privilege of serving them.
2006-10-09 22:54:00 · answer #9 · answered by handyman5218 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think they want someone who will hang out with them , call on the phone. sit with, hold hands. talk ,go out.
2006-10-09 22:47:26 · answer #10 · answered by joy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋