I have a girlfriend, and this guy started liking her, but he knew he couldn't get over me, so he started to become her best friend by fullfilling all her wishes (presents, dinners, money, any kind of unconditional aid) I hate the guy cuz she uses him as a replacement of me whenever I can't help her or do something with her or support her, she knows he's madly in love with her but she says she doesn't want to hurt him, and also she is very happy with him being unconditional to all her needs. I hate the guy and I can't stand him, not even seing him or anything, what should I do? She says if she has to pick one it would be him, not me.
2006-10-09 15:35:26 · 14 answers · asked by Trak 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay! If she has to pick one, it would be HIM? What more do you need to tell you what you should do? Your girlfriend is a user, and you need to lose her!
2006-10-09 15:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by LibraT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put it this way. If you had a bf and you had to choose between him and a girl friend who would you choose/
The answer to your question, is in a Chinese proverb it goes something like.. be a big fish at the bottom of a deep pool.
In other words just be silent :) ok?
^_^ it'll be ok
2006-10-09 22:41:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might try making yourself a little more available to her, not necessarily financially, but just time and emotions and such. If she is worth your time, then emotions will be worth more than finances. Then try explaining the situation to her and how you feel, always say "when you....it makes me feel as though...." never let it sound like an accusation, because that will ruin things for you.
2006-10-09 22:43:28 · answer #3 · answered by CJT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop her man, she is just using both of you and playing bothof you off of each other. don't know about you but i don't have time for that and as soon as my g/f started throwing her male freinds in my face I would tell her to go be with them if she liked the way they did stuff better than me, i would even open the door before I threw her out of my house
2006-10-09 22:39:29 · answer #4 · answered by smitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess shes fallen for him. u cant give up though. keep trying by giving her gifts and stuff. u gotta improve your image. forget about the other guy. think about the girl and how much u like her. to what extent will u go for her. prove ur love for her.
2006-10-09 22:39:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got a question for you. How do you feel since you found out that she has just been using you all this time?
2006-10-09 22:44:52 · answer #6 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If shes going to pick him then why are you still with her she's kinda using both of you if you think about it long and hard
2006-10-09 22:39:06 · answer #7 · answered by reddevil_149699 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLO, wake up & smell the coffee, she has you both on a string, CUT the string & get a life of your own,
2006-10-09 22:39:46 · answer #8 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she does not sound like to good of friend to say that to you...i would stay away from her...you need real friends or none at all....
2006-10-09 22:40:16 · answer #9 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she chose you over him, she chose gifts over you, i don't know what you are still doing with her if she is willing to give you up for someone else
2006-10-09 22:39:16 · answer #10 · answered by Luis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋