We've had this on again, off again thing going on for a couple of weeks. Right now its off, not because he doesn't want to be with me, but because he can't. I haven't seen or heard from him in a week and he is out of town with freinds and I know I won't see him again for another week. When we are "on", the chemistry is completely amazing, and because of this, I can't get him out of my mind. I find myself wondering if men think of us when they are busy having fun and can't be with us, or can they put us out of their minds just like that.
Do men just forget about us when we're not around?
Is it possible that men think about us and analyze the situation over and over like we do?
Or is it simply somewhere in between, like once or twice a day?
2006-10-09 15:32:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's a hard question to answer. You are assuming that all men are the same. That is simply not the case. Now I don't know if he thinks about you, I can't read his mind. Now some guys do, and some guys don't. If he thinks about you, then it won't be off again for very long.
2006-10-09 15:36:11 · answer #1 · answered by cubno1fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, unless you are in a tight-as-rocks relationship with a guy that's worth having, you won't find consistancy in any guy (especially the ones that are into the on-off relationships.).
I suggest that you forget about him, because he sounds like a waste of time and energy in your part. If he comes back to you and starts saying that he wants to get back with you, refuse him. You're not his personal yo-yo to use every so often, and you shouldn't make yourself available to him in that way.
Next time he comes again, tell him no, that you're not interested in him if he wants to keep up with this yoyo relationship. That way you're alerting him that you're not going to waste your heart and mind on him if he's gonna act that way.
2006-10-09 15:41:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a life and get busy doing something, like reading a book, get some eduction and most of all do not sit home and wait for someone to call you. He may be married or he has a job and has to make money and can not baby sit you all the time.
2006-10-09 15:36:15 · answer #3 · answered by cakebread@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm..., I think you love him too much, more than he loves you. The fact is he didnt contact you for several days. You know when love, people cant not think about each other. But what did he do? You have to be smart to see problem or you need to find the reason...
2006-10-09 15:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by Lai Lan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, I doubt someone who treats you this way thinks about you too much. On/off relationships with weeks between seeing each other or speaking don't sound very romantic or promising to me.
2006-10-09 15:35:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men use women for sex and immediate gratification. It takes 1 little finger to dial a phone.
Forget him, he is such a user.
2006-10-09 15:37:50 · answer #6 · answered by happydawg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋