What do you think happens to the children whos parents and family abondon them?

Question

I.E. Drug users, prostitutes etc... When social services takes them. What do you think happens to them?

For some reason you have it in youre head that these kids are there becouse they are the bad ones. They are not. socity abandoned them long before there parents did. I was one of these kids. I wasent ever placed in a "loving foster home" i was placed in a old delapitated orphanage, That was shut down recently due to the amount of children winding up in the E.R. Foster care is big money buissness just like oil.

Answer 1

Lets See , My ma was a crack head , I was ripped away from my brothers and sisters when i was 11 and havn't seen them since (I am 25 Now) , I was not given a foster home because i was "emotionally disturbed" AKA I cried all the time. Whi the hell wouldn;t cry when they had never been seperated from their syblings.
When I finally got a single "theraputic foster home" that promised i they would never get rid off me (i was 15 by then) they got rid of me 1 day before my new baby brother was to be born (there ony real child) , I was ripped out of school , but into a orphanage type facility agian where I fought and argued dailyl for books , I was over ed , forced to take medication for a now proven false diagnosis of depression. I was forced to quit high school in the 12th grade to get a ged (because a GED was mandatory for anyone over 16 in my facility). I was finally capable of being in a group home when i got admission to Junior college ( qual for a a state university but had to go with ajr college because i had no ordained gaurdian to allow me to live on campus as was required by the University statute) , but when i got into the Jr college , I was asked to sign a student loan aplication wich would lead to disaster a mont h later because someone noticed that I had no gaurdian to sign for me and that i was 17 , thus not legaly capable of signing a contract. I was removed from the college , the group home could not keep a child that could not attend school because it had no day staff. So i was returned once again to the orph where i was forced to attend scheduled 12th grade classes in the in house school (note i already had my GED that they had forced me to take) and I stayed there till I was 18. Then they gave me a bus ticket to wherever i chose.

I then wondered about quite confused about life , looked for my brothers and sisters and only found a ****** up crackhead of a ma who i still don;t wanna talk to.

A loving home dosnt mean crap.
I wound up homeless , broke and confused.
Till someone gave me about 20$ worth of beads , wich i made into jewelry , and i sold that jewelry slowly i built a buisness
a home , found a nice man , am having a baby , and STILL looking for my brothers and sisters.

People Don;t even realize that only a small percentage of kids actually get foster homes. The rest get aquare eggs , many non-holidays and disspointment , not to mention a crappy education.

Answer 2

Well, let's see. I was reading an article on CNN.com today about a foster mother who wants to "unadopt" her 15-year-old adopted son because he's apparently a sex offender. The boy has been in 5 different homes since he was 18 months old. 18 months!!!!!!!! I pray for his soul. Even more, I pray for the soul of the people who originally abandoned him. So, hopefully that gives you an idea of what "happens to the children whos [sic] parents and family abondon [sic] them".

Answer 3

Most are placed in foster care, and then hopefully are adopted. My mother-in-law does the foster kid thing, she gets some kids that come from horrible backgrounds. Not too many get adopted either, it is very sad.

Answer 4

I knew a girl who was in that situation. Her parents were crack heads and basically abandoned her. They let her sit in her own dirty diapers for weeks and didn't feed her. She got taken away eventually and adopted by a family. She was in my 11th grade class. She had a very strange look (no chin, buldging eyes) most likely from her mother doing drugs when she was pregnant... but she was a really smart girl. She had lots of friends and loved writing poems and singing. She looked like a very happy girl and other than her appearance, she was perfectly normal.

Answer 5

They will go into a foster home and hopefully they will be adopted and loved like they should have been from the beginning of their lives.

Answer 6

They will be placed in a foster home. Hopefully they will be adopted by a loving family.

Answer 7

It all depends. Do they receive nurturing from another source? Do they have a good head on their shoulders? Of course there are two paths they can take. Encouragement and trust can help them turn their lives around. Social services can be good or bad. They will probably be turned out at age 18 which is a young age to be on your own. Hopefully a completed education and a desire to be a success will guide them down the right path. Prayer will help immensely.

Answer 8

whether the mothers and fathers are unlawful immigrants, their babies, if born in the U.S, are definitely leagal electorate. the babies might maximum possibly ought to carry on with their mothers and fathers decrease back to their very own us of a, yet whilst they are 18 years previous, they'd settle directly to outlive their very own interior us of a of america. in short, the mothers and fathers are unlawful and ought to circulate away, however the babies are criminal electorate and are unfastened to stay or immigrate with their mothers and fathers. desire this helps and robust success!

Answer 9

It depends on if they get placed in loving homes or not.

Answer 10

Rips out their heart!