My ex blames it on me that were not together cuz i said that i ddint want to b with anyone right now cuz he hurt me and now i want him back and he wants me but he says its my fault were not together when hes the one who broke up with me.so would it be my fault for telling him i dont want to be with anybody when i said that about 4 weeks ago or would it be his fault for beakingup with me
2006-10-09 15:19:10 · 7 answers · asked by reddevil_149699 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, I understand that you don't want to be with anybody right now because probably you want some alone time. he should of respected that. but knowing that he broke up with you, I would think it's his fault because he broke up with you and also he hurt you. he shouldn't of hurt you period. And he shuold of listened when you didn't want to be with anybody.
2006-10-09 15:25:46 · answer #1 · answered by jigenlo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there became a time in my early 1920s that i became homeless, would stay some days with acquaintances, connect with a woman for some days and slept in my motor vehicle. This went on for some months. Fault became all my very own, finding returned at it now, yet that could have been my final reaction on the time - blamed previous boss, mothers and dads, siblings, government, and so on. rather, i'm an addict and became no longer able to hold onto a job. i did no longer attempt to get food stamps or housing, became dealing drugs and stealing for funds. at last, have been given thrown in penal complex for dealing and have been given off drugs. became in a position to envision my existence with out the smokescreen of dope in the way and found out it became my very own FAULT. Now, twenty some years later, i'm a school graduate, husband and father, tax payer and nonetheless an addict. some human beings would be helped with a hand up, for others, we could be b i t c h slapped. there is not any think approximately residing on fault, the path is distinctive for each guy or woman. it rather is which fork in the path human beings p.c. to take that define our destiny.
2016-12-26 14:40:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still fighting over who's fault the first break up was, then neither of you are mature enough for a real relationship with each other and the 2nd time around will be a disaster too.
2006-10-09 15:24:55 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Childish attitudes won't get you two back together.
It does not matter who's fault it WAS. Who is keeping you from getting back to happiness? Or is that even possible?
2006-10-09 15:23:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though someone is trying to talk someone into giving up something,get my drift?
2006-10-09 15:25:07 · answer #5 · answered by dhwtaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both your faults. deal with that fact and then move on.
2006-10-09 15:23:43 · answer #6 · answered by jdchick48 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both i guess its not only his its yours try more communication this time mayb it will stop you from gettin bak to this dead end
2006-10-09 15:21:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋