I am trying to convince me im happy the truth its im not im happy with my kids and my husband but the fact of still living with my mom and not being able of having my own home it really makes me unconfotable it just that i feel the need of having my home of move out but evrything has been sp hard everytime we try its someting new and i dont know how to deal with my feeling could someone tell me how to deal with my problem and if you had gone trough something like that please give me some advice in dealing with it mostly i feel bad becaus i dont want to be where i am but have to so i feel like traped someone has live someting like this tell me your story
2006-10-09 15:19:04 · 5 answers · asked by user 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
First off you need to accept unhappiness if that is how you are feeling. Don't try and act as if it's not happening or you will cause yourself even more stress then you are experiencing. Second realize that you have the power to control what goes on in your life. Take into account the situation at hand and approach it seriously. Know what things you can do in short amount of time to combat the issue. Then plan on the long term goals to complete the turning around of your unhappiness. Talk to your husband about it then see if counseling would be best. Realize that not everyone family can manage the extended family role. That some just need to leave it alone. Your not the last to go through something like this. My brother just got himself out of the situation. He is still in the process of finding a home for his family. He is an a one bedroom apart for the time being but he said it was worth it. He needed piece of mind instead of living with my sister-in law's family. Sometimes doing something that might seem impossible to handle could be a blessing in disguise. You don't have to trap yourself anywhere. If your unhappy and the family is suffering make those need changes. Good luck to you.
2006-10-09 15:37:01 · answer #1 · answered by giya_98 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The old saying: "Two families cannot live in the same house" is VERY true. Where is your husband? Is he also living with you and your parents?
If so, how is the money? Can you afford to move out? Can you live a decent life out of mom's house?
IF so, talk to your husband and tell him it is time for you and the family to move out and have your own home, whether it is a condo, apartment, house or a trailer. There is NO place like home. Good luck. Pops
2006-10-09 22:25:25 · answer #2 · answered by Pops 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you are not alone. I live with my fiance' and his sister and mom and we have a 2 year old. I am miserable but we are going to move out in about 6 months. You just have to stack your cash while you are there and then you will be able to pull out. Trust me .
2006-10-09 22:22:32 · answer #3 · answered by sweethonesty1699 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it would help you to see a counselor..It would be someone impartial and they can give you techniques for dealing with all you are going through.
2006-10-09 22:25:01 · answer #4 · answered by **KELLEY** 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop having kids. Get an education. Move out. Be well.
2006-10-09 22:24:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋