Here is an example:
Girl #1: SHe is a virgin and plans to wait until she marries.SHe doesnt drink, doesn't smoke and doesnt do drug.She is more family oriented and helpful towards others.SHe is smart, well educated.Got career goals, she is loyal, faithful and is an honest woman.SHe is physically beautiful and very caring. She is understanding and is willing to compromise to make a man happy and not always get things always her way.
Girl #2: Seems to give herself quite easily and has been around with many men. She rarely works for what she needs she always has some guy do her homework or whatever she needs done.Financialy relies on a man ALWAYS.She tends to gossip, flirt with alot of men. Tends to be unfaithful. manipulative, will twist the truth to get things done her way.
Why is men tend to prefer Girl#2 ??? Why do they flock to those type of women?Why do men tend to hate Girl #1?
Why is it girl#2 tend to get more ahead and seem to get more respect from men than Girl#1?
2006-10-09 15:18:41 · 20 answers · asked by liipl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm girl #1 and I noticed that people tend to prefer Girl#2 and they support Girl#2 alot more
2006-10-09 15:38:26 · update #1
Guys want to have sex. Depending on your age especially, I think guys gravitate towards someone like that because they are flirtatious and lead guys on... Stay being girl#1... Love will find you; and it will be great...just don't go nuts after getting it on...and wanting to be with other dudes afterwards
2006-10-09 16:11:23 · answer #1 · answered by Duuuude no waaaay! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually, men tend to like a better blend of the two. They want a woman that is sexy, confident, intelligant and willing to take relationships as they progress. If you are the typical Girl #1 that is waiting for marriage, than you should be only looking at guys that share your faith and ideals. Since you do not drink, smoke, or anything else than you are not going to the bars and having the sleazy men that typically pick-up the slutty women.
Actually, girl #2 is more likely to be taken advantage of and get less respect form decent men than girl #1.
2006-10-09 15:35:39 · answer #2 · answered by andy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl #1 a guy will bring home to his mom and maybe marry
Girl #2 a guy just wants to have some fun with. Guys usually know better than to mary girl #2 types
as far as why guys like girl #2 it's because alot guys fit into the # 2 category as well.
their is a double standard guys get patted on the back if they have sex with lots of girls. yet girls get called sluts.
2006-10-09 15:35:13 · answer #3 · answered by Tim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one thing, those are 2 extremes and girl #1 wouldn't be highly appealing to many actually...vices are normal in we fallible humans and someone so seemingly "perfect" isn't really all that appealing...
But to answer your subject question, they don't...guys don't hate women who aren't loose/slutty...but conversely they tend to like sex and often don't want to wait until marriage to have it....by the same token a large % of women feel the same way...if one chooses to be a virgin, that's great but sex is a normal human urge, and a pleasurable thing to do so it's not odd that a lot of people enjoy doing it and may not care to date someone who prefers not to do it...
Not every woman who has sex outside of marriage is a s1ut or loose though, so your question is unfair to most women, who fall somewhere between your girl 1 and girl 2...
Your post seems to indicate you see yourself as girl 1...a bit egotistical and holier than thou, but that doesn't mean you won't meet a guy who'll dig you...especially if you back off the ego a bit and appear less like a doormat (loyal, faithful, willing to compromise to MAKE a man happy...) You cannot make anyone happy, nor they you, that's up to the individual...
Don't get discouraged because men like sex and you prefer to wait...there are guys out there that are kewl with waiting...but simply because you choose to wait, doesn't make those who don't lesser people than you...
2006-10-09 15:30:13 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
That's not always true and I don't think they "hate" them per se.. they just don't want to wait. My guy knows I'm a virgin & I don't do those stuff [drugs, drink alcohol, smoke] and he's willing to wait. He admires it actually..
I don't think girl # 2 "gets ahead" either and neither would she be more respected if guys view her as 'easy'.. they'll do whatever they have to do to get it then move on to the next chick; that's not really getting ahead... that's being used.
2006-10-09 15:24:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl # 2 and one both sound like there still in school and dont need to be even thinking about guys
Take this from a 21yo guy
All guys are doggs and just want one thing from a girl !!!
P.S. Send girl # 2 my e-mail address hahahaha
2006-10-09 15:45:38 · answer #6 · answered by tim 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They want to use it and lose it at this age. They also like vulnarable woman so that they can be the hero and protect her. Girl #1 should flirt more and feed a little bit of the guy's ego. Trust me honey, guys will not respect girl number 2. There was a great skit on mad tv about this!
2006-10-09 15:28:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your perception is not complete. There are a lot of guys who prefer girl #2, but there is also a significant number who prefer girl #1. The problem is this: where does a nice girl go to meet guys?
2006-10-09 15:23:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
Know the difference between a boy and a man. A boy will go for girl #2 because she gives it up but believe he does not respect her and they flock to them because they are easy to get. A man wants girl #1 because she is worth more than just that moment. Know the difference.
2006-10-09 15:27:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 1⤋
She is not getting more respect! promise, and guys like that because they are so damn horney and just want to have sex. They aren't thinking in the long term, where girl #! would be the better choice. but if you ask them would they ever have a long term relationship with girl #2 or marriage they would say no. They just use her for what they can.
2006-10-09 15:23:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋