So im dating this chick, who wants to take things a bit too fast.. On our first date we Made out like hell. Had I not said, lets take things slow, id be waking up right next to her the next day. So the next time we went out, I gave her a peck on the lips, as supposed to french kissing,--- Which message do you think she got, is it Im not interested? or I want to slow down things for awhile? I hope the later...
2006-10-09 15:18:26 · 11 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's hard to say....it depends on the maturity level of the girl and the other kinds of attention that you are paying to her......if she is immature and you are not showing your interest in other ways, then she will assume you are not interested. If she is mature, and you are showing your interest, she should assume the latter.
2006-10-09 15:21:25 · answer #1 · answered by Genevieve 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are the first guy she's dated that is showing her some respect. There are other ways of showing someone you're interested use those and get to know each other. I'm sure she will feel special. I think you are doing the right thing and if she is only interested in a physical relationship then it's best to just move on.
Communication is always important so telling her how you feel and keeping lines open between you is your best bet.
It's nice to know there are still some sweet guys out there.....
2006-10-09 15:26:19 · answer #2 · answered by easinclair 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not interested and you want to be friends, or that you think she's a crap kisser. Talk to her, because she's probably analyzing the hell out of this with her friends and pouring though "he's just not that into you". When male behavour changes suddenly with no explanation, the female brain goes into overdrive and girls start getting paranoid and analyze everything. If you explain to her that you want to take it slow I'm sure she'll be cool with it.
2006-10-09 15:23:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 03:43:15 · answer #4 · answered by roedel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how refreshing...i don't think i have ever been around a man who wanted to slow things down. lol. men have been programmed to think that if they aren't jumping a girls bones at the first moment they get, that they are lame. there is nothing wrong with being uncomfortable with shoving your pee-pee in a girl before you know her better. it's called, SENSE! (for whatever reason, God was selective with sense-giving to men :)
2006-10-09 15:24:41 · answer #5 · answered by sexy law chick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she was wanting to go all the way on the first day maybe she is not really ready to have a commited relationship.....may want to find someone else
2006-10-09 15:22:11 · answer #6 · answered by thats me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to guess....tell her you like her but you want this to have a chance and you think it would be better to take things a little slower.
Good for you.
2006-10-09 15:22:42 · answer #7 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sry but if she's like that then you prpbably made her think you're not interested in her tell her don't try to make her guess...believe it or not we can be just as bad as guys sometimes when it comes to picking up subtle hints like that
2006-10-09 15:22:38 · answer #8 · answered by Danielle S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not interested!
2006-10-09 15:21:19 · answer #9 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont no but that girl needs 2 b dumped cause she is trouble soon
2006-10-09 15:22:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋