OK so i think that maybe it is not possible for me to be happy with one person for the rest of my life. It goes great for the frist 3 monthes and then all the sudden it's like i get board and i wanna sleep with other people or "look for somthing better" I jump from relasionship to relasonship what is wrong with me honistly i am a good peson and i know i am hurting the people i am with and i hate how can i change this about me??
2006-10-09 15:07:58 · 4 answers · asked by amanda b 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are who you are. There is nothing wrong with what you are doing, but call it what it is. You have casual, short relationships and make sure whoever you are with knows that is the deal as well from the get go. If you're looking for a real relationship, you need to be ready to commit to one person no matter what, and work through the "stale" times. Until you are ready to do that, enjoy the casual fling.
2006-10-09 15:13:18 · answer #1 · answered by speedysundevil 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not a "good" person a certain percentage of your day. You are living a really shallow existence in that, if it were possible, you would opt for one night stands every day of the week. The "something better" may or may be out there the next time, but it doesn't really matter with you because you just want more, more, more. There is something in your head that is lying to you, like a drug lies to one, and you do not have anything else going on in your life to offer anyone. If they don't drop you first, due to you also being "boring," then they are, indeed losers to put up with just the heavy sweating. You need therapeutic counseling to jump start your getting another interest in life and making goals so that you can stop being a "bad" person. Because you certainly are being that the way you use others. It is okay to feel guilty but get into therapy.
This is the answer to your plea.
2006-10-09 22:16:27 · answer #2 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are either really young (which would explain your poor spelling) or you are afraid of commitment (or both). Anyway, it is possible that when you feel that things are getting more serious and that there is more responsibility involved, you get scared of that commitment and run. It is also possible that these guys are not the right ones for you, or you might not get so bored with them. Also, maybe you don't feel deserving of something good, and so when someone is right for you and it feels good and you really start to get settled, something inside of you tells you that you don't deserve it, you don't deserve such nice treatment, such security, such comfort, love and ease. If that is the case, then you need to fix whatever scars you have in your life (dump the baggage) that made you a person who believes that they are not worth giving a damn about. Value yourself more and accept that you are deserving of that kind of happiness.
2006-10-09 23:03:15 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can sleep with me
2006-10-09 22:14:57 · answer #4 · answered by SHIRAZ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋