there are some girls I know that would never, ever even think about having a one-night stand and other such behavior. Some even seem to feel quite bad after they've done it. And it doesn't have do to with religion or morals always either.
Then on the other hand, I know some girls that engage in such behavior all the time and doesn't even seem to phase them. How can there be such a variety of emotions? Does it just depend on the girl?
2006-10-09 14:54:22 · 17 answers · asked by s_e_e 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me rephrase this: Some girls after a one night stand appear to feel a big emotional surge, where they seem to be "in love" or someting like that.
Other girls do not seem to care, they are just like "see ya" and that is that.
So is the first group of girls pretending to be in love, or is the second group repressing their emotions, or do girls just feel differently?
2006-10-09 15:09:10 · update #1
It depends on the girl, on the situation, and on how the girl has been raised. If she has been taught from the time she was very young to wait until marriage, she might be recapping that. She might have fun doing that on the other hand, the big get even..everyone is different and has different views, I say right moment, right guy, right feeling...get your freak on, you only live once!
2006-10-09 15:02:13 · answer #1 · answered by melanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this isn't more that it depends on the girl, it depends on how they were raised more than anything. Some girls that are raised well by social standards seem to feel guilty because of what they have done and sometimes feel ashamed because if their parent's find out, it's the end of the world. Some girls were raised in an environment where unfortunately, the parents aren't that into what she can and cannot do and what's right and wrong. On the other hand, sometimes sex can be an out for things that are going wrong in someone's life. I know in my case, my parent's were so strict that as soon as I hit 18, I rebelled, and bye bye virginity to some loser guy I didn't stay with that long. Sometimes it's pressure from friends. There are really a ton of factors. It is like you said, it depends on the girl, but the other key factors are emotions, morals, lifestyles, and how they were raised. Hope this helps.
2006-10-09 21:59:45 · answer #2 · answered by beautifulsweetheart20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some females look at it in different ways...some females feel if they have a one night stand or sleep with a man on the first night then they will be labeled as a hoe or easy whereas other females feel like if a man can do it then why can't a female....the problem is that we live in a double standard world where if men have sex with multiple women then he is known as a pimp/ player but if a women has sex with many men then she is labeled as a hoe/slut or easy. It just really depend on the female, some females don't care what others think so she is comfortable with one night stands and etc...but other females feel like if they do have a one night stand then he will feel less respected about herself...what i got to say about it: It's 2006...live life and don't regret anything
2006-10-09 22:03:04 · answer #3 · answered by Sexii Slim 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude....im a dude,
and from what i know bout women,
even those that dont engage in it or feel bad if they do,
actually have the ability within them to be that way as well.
women have the innate ability to cheat, even more so than men. may surveys were done on this, and it goes that women will cheat with good looking guys, but when it comes time to settling down, they'll go for the ordinary joe. but the questiuon is, would a good guy joe, even want a used up broad like that by then? dont think so.
if u look up at all the questions i've been asking, u'll find some interesting answers. i usually ask it very directly, like why do women cheat, and so on.
now....gimme 10 points ok? please, please?
2006-10-09 21:58:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it does depend on the girl. It takes all kinds to make the world go around, figure out what you want, need in a girl and are you willing to settle for less, thats your choices and options, but ask your self these questions. When I was younger I was alot easier , now I am in my 40's and very particular, so people chance and some never do, But figure out what youo want, and also figure out if your willing to gamble on that person changing, or are you willing for less than what you want, Itsliek this, hormones in older women, and hormones in girls or young women are nothing but hormones on greasy rollar skates. Remember, IT TAKES ALL KINDS
2006-10-09 22:02:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the woman's needs at the time. I never thought I would be the kind of girl who would, but it suited me at the time in my life. Also, you never know what kind of chemistry you have with someone. I don't think anyone ever knows how they really are until they're in that situation.
2006-10-09 21:58:31 · answer #6 · answered by yayaya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just depends on the girl.I am one of the ones that would never think of having a one-night stand,so I think about it but I would never do it
2006-10-09 21:58:33 · answer #7 · answered by silly_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what she wanted with that guy.
It depends on whether or not he seemed to promise more than a one night stand.
It even depends on what she thinks of herself.
Its mostly her expectations, if it isn't religious or moral.
2006-10-09 21:58:54 · answer #8 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just depends on the girl.
2006-10-09 21:56:41 · answer #9 · answered by nancy e 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It just depends on the girl and her values.
2006-10-09 21:58:32 · answer #10 · answered by connie_mspt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋