I met her Freshmen year and i instantly knew i liked her, almost like love at first site or whatever, and as soon as we became friends it wasnt really a secret that i liked her. Unfortunately im such a loser that i kept screwing up. She gave me a chance late that year to start something with her, but she had been with so many guys and i hadnt been with anyone so i wussed out. The next year we actually buily our relationship enouph to finally kiss, and it was obvious how we felt for eachother. But my low confidence stopped me again and now shes in a serious relationship with a guy she supposedly loves, and i suspect theyve "been together". We are still friends somewhat, but i think its too late for Us to ever happen. I dont think this guy is right for her, hes leading her down the wrong path i think, should i try something? or what? and if so, what? I dont know
2006-10-09 14:49:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you blew it, now you have to wait
2006-10-09 14:52:57 · answer #1 · answered by traci s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Bigwuss
Well you had a first kiss, so there is definatly some chemestry there, she might have had a crush on you! Are you sure this new guy is taking her to a bad path? Try to find out more about this.
It sounds as if you did not get over her, she seems like a nice girl and you a nice boy, i suggest you try to build some confidence and try to speak with her again, make a date with her over the phone to a romantic place, just make sure she is not with him, and he don't know about!
Its the only way to find out if she still has feelings for you, ask her on the table if she still thinks about you!
Goodluck!
2006-10-09 21:56:46 · answer #2 · answered by Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have missed your chance. Use this as a learning experience and don't repeat the mistake. Women love men that can take the situation under control. We don't like to make the first move nor do (most) women like shy guys. Next time don't wait.
2006-10-09 21:55:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should push up on her. You had the chance but like you said " you wussed out" i suggest that you just be there for her as a friend and if it is meant to be then it will be.
2006-10-09 21:54:36 · answer #4 · answered by Liyah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should keep trying but boost your self-esteem you are good enough for her everyone is equal. Even now you standing up and saying somethings wrong that's a quality that you are honest. Keep trying no matter what. As long as you care about her and show her.
2006-10-09 21:53:55 · answer #5 · answered by thunderbabe128 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone and move on. Women decide on men when they first meet them usually. She's with another man now, that along should send you packing. There are too many women out there to waste time on one that's already taken.
2006-10-09 21:53:09 · answer #6 · answered by Mitch B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cant handle your self, then your not ready for a relationship. Let her go , its her life. Trust that she is wise enough to make the right choices along the way.
2006-10-09 21:55:29 · answer #7 · answered by hatman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should take a step back and let things go for awhile.
You're putting too much pressure on her and on you.
It doesn't matter if think this guy isn't right for her....it's not your call.
If you and this girl are meant to be it will happen....don't force it.
2006-10-09 21:53:52 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand under her window and sing her a love song.
2006-10-09 21:54:10 · answer #9 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont date friends lots of fish in the sea you usually meet people when your not looking {relationship wise}
2006-10-09 21:54:28 · answer #10 · answered by halicon2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you have to lose all she can say is no to you...I don`t think you have enough confidence in yourself to say anything to her.....and if you do GO FOR IT...
2006-10-09 21:58:14 · answer #11 · answered by Carol H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋