he always say something about the world being bad or politics might prevent us from being able to raise our children correctly i need to know what kind of bs is this and what the hell is htalking about
2006-10-09 14:46:05 · 16 answers · asked by Emily F 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want to have kids and he doesn't DON'T MARRY HIM. Don't waste your time, I'm serous. Life is hell when you marry someone and then finally come to realize that they're serious and there's nothing you can do to change that. Especially men. Some men are such jerks that they will not change for anything. It is best to hold off on the marriage until you two can get on the same page. PLEASE TAKE MY ADVISE.
2006-10-09 15:51:09 · answer #1 · answered by danikatspecial 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, you have to do some soul searching beofre you said "I DO" to him. He is making it clear that he does not want any children at this time. He needs to be upfront with you and stop the games so you will know what you have to do and it will make you decide on what you need to do next. It is clear that you want children in the future. How old is he? How old are you? Sometime things change when we get a little older and wiser and mature.
2006-10-09 15:40:37 · answer #2 · answered by michellej 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want kids, don't marry him. Guys are simple and it sounds like he is honestly telling you that he isn't interested in being a father. Don't assume that he'll change his mind later...he may, but he probably won't. And, whatever you do, don't get pregnant with him unless he freely agrees that having kids would enrich his life. If he doesn't want them, he'll resent you and may not stick around to raise them with you. There are way to many fatherless kids in the world as it is.
Besides, if you want to be a mom, be patient. There are quality guys out there who truly do want a family. Good luck to you!!
2006-10-09 14:55:12 · answer #3 · answered by vgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tell you what girl if you want children and he don't than either you will have to live without kids or find someone else. You may want to talk it over and make sure he doesnt want kids, if he dont then thats your choice.
2006-10-09 14:49:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honest answer: he does not want to have the responsibility of to have and to educate children.It is nothing about bad world or politics.we will see our children growing up,we will die also,and the world will be the same: with poverty,hunger,and wars.Good question.Talk seriously with him, ask him :why is the real reason he does not want to have children.Good luck.
2006-10-09 14:55:27 · answer #5 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! You are good enough! From the sound of things, he don't want the RESPONSIABLITY of having kids. He wants the benefits of Marriage, like free sex, an extra tax exempton, and someone to slave for him. He wants a whore and a slave. He sounds just like a bunch of jerks I used to date. You might want to get pre-marriage counciling. Just to make sure he REALLY loves you.
2006-10-09 14:54:15 · answer #6 · answered by stormchildforever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that he doesn't want kids but he does want you. He wants to get you married and then tell you the flat out truth that he does not want any children. Then you are stuck...or if you defy him and them anyway he may never be happy with your relationship and life together. Please think about what it is worth.
2006-10-09 14:51:06 · answer #7 · answered by kari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably want to sort all those things out before you tie the knot.
2006-10-09 14:48:30 · answer #8 · answered by SouthernBelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is just making those excuses cause he is not ready or doesn't want to have children.
2006-10-09 14:48:24 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Love Love♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to decide if you want him or the kids. If you can live without kids then marry him, if you cant then do not.
2006-10-09 14:47:40 · answer #10 · answered by Sammy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋