Ok we're living miles apart, and although i love and completely trust him i just can't stop thinking that he might be doing someone else on the side. Am I wrong for thinking that way, or should i just stop worrying and move on...5 years without s.. is a long time, i mean i can wait for him but i'm not to sure about him. I really need some help and plus I've never done "It" before and not do i not want to waste my time on him if i can't be sure that he's being true to me, I also don't want to give it up to him only to be broke up with afterwards. Please help!
2006-10-09 14:42:51 · 29 answers · asked by bellefleure 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
long distance relationship dont work. ask him. 5 years is a long time not seeing a person...dont be surprise if he is unfaithful
2006-10-09 14:47:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Far distance relationships are though and you two sure deserve some props for keeping it going smoothly for so long. Although, since you have not seen in in 5 years there is a chance that he is being unfaithful. Do you know what you can do to make sure that he isn't? You can call cheaters a reality tv show that follows your boyfriend around for a few days and see what he's been up to and they will report to you can tell you the good or bad news. Good luck
http://www.cheaters.com/
2006-10-09 14:50:02 · answer #2 · answered by Liliac 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I couldnt imagine living that far apart from one another for 5 years. I dont see how people do these long distance relationships. If you really like him then talk to him about this loosing your virginity to some guy your not serious about might affect other relationships later on down the road. You might just have to break it off and find someone else.
2006-10-09 14:48:08 · answer #3 · answered by 2wild4u 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can never know whether someone has been truly faithful to you or not. Some men are just plain dirty liars. Do you think your boyfriend is one?
How old are you both anyway? Most men enjoy sex even those so -called priests who have given their lives to God. Then they go and screw young kids. How sick is that?
So, to answer your question, only you can find out when you ask him that question.
And I agree with the rest of the people who said 5 years is a long times. It is!
Remember: the truth shall set you free.
2006-10-09 14:47:59 · answer #4 · answered by doggoneit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 years and you haven't seen your boyfriend? I wouldn't waste your time with this guy if you can't even be with him. It's like ordering a pizza and just staring at it instead of eating it. It makes no sense. So, definitely think about whether you want to date someone who you don't see. Think about how much someone changes in 5 years!
Plus, if your having doubts about him, there is a reason!
2006-10-09 14:46:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You haven't seen each other in FIVE years? That's a really long time. But if he's worth your time, he'll be open and honest with you. So just ask him. Of course, he may get defensive that you would even think that but if he really cared for you, he would understand. He wouldn't break up with you over that one question. And if he tells you that he hasn't... been so good, then you know what you have to do.
2006-10-09 14:52:56 · answer #6 · answered by kayy_bee123 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did not give much background info, why havent you seen him in 5 YEARS? how old are you? how long were you together before the 5 years of not seeing him? im assuming pretty young.? Is he older than you? has he had sex with anyone else before being with you. From my experiences, if you have a gut feeling that your boyfirend is not being faithful, AT LEAST investigate as much as you can before you accuse him of cheating..BUT the gut feelings usually are a good sign that your right
2006-10-09 14:49:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
5 years IS a long time. Why have neither of you made the effort to see each other? There is no relationship to save. Find another.
good luck~
2006-10-09 14:46:51 · answer #8 · answered by Renee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him.I'm sure he will say no,but in the long run it could eat him up inside.Don't just give it to him either.Not saying that you will.But just hold off for a while and see what he does.If he really loves you,then he will be honest.And if he lies,if he really loves you,it will eat him alive.
2006-10-09 14:46:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't seen him in five years, there isn't a relationship. It's been over for quite some time and nobody has bothered to tell you.
2006-10-09 14:44:55 · answer #10 · answered by tjjone 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋