A new girl at school and I hit it off real nice and we both like eachother and everyone can tell, but i dont really even know her that well. How do i ask her out and when is it right, should i learn about her first or start up a relationship. factor in the knowledge that im kinda a big wuss and let me know what to do.
I'ts very possible this girl is into things im not cool with, like getting wasted on the weekend, should that be a factor?
2006-10-09 14:40:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just thow in the phrase, "Hey what are you doing on Saturday", or something like that. It's best used right after you two have had a good laugh.
2006-10-09 14:43:28 · answer #1 · answered by stephenjlb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "cool with or not cool with" thing is most definitely a
big deal! Did she tell you she was into these things? Or
did someone else tell you this? If it came from someone else,
then you should just ask her out and get to know her. If you
don't like her lifestyle, then you can end things with her.
People tend to knock others whom they consider a threat
to them, so do not take others too seriously.
2006-10-09 14:46:10 · answer #2 · answered by Crosscheck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just mentioned this to someone else. Plan a group event. Discuss in front of her. If she gets in the conversation or hangs around while you're talking about say: You can join if you like. If she's into something your against. Keep her as a friend.
2006-10-09 14:44:58 · answer #3 · answered by Omni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you guys seem to be going well and i see no reason she wont go out with you. Well it takes a lot of courage to ask a woman out, but remember the most that will happen is she will say no when you ask her out. whats the big deal, she will still be there and you will have lot of chance to ask her out again. it wont be the end of world.
And as far as knowing her is concerned, if you want to really know her then spend more time with her, trying to know about her and then if you are comfortable , ask her out. its your choice.
2006-10-09 14:48:47 · answer #4 · answered by bhopaliguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
isnt that what dating is all about, getting to know one another better? I say take the plunge, but make sure your in a group of you friends and her friends, make sure you get the heads up from your guyz but remember your the one shes dating, not your friends.
2006-10-09 14:42:59 · answer #5 · answered by black_rose_math 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have feelings for her then stand up and tell her. If there are certin thinks you don't like then if she is into you you could tell her how you feel about them if she dose care she would stop. Good luck.
2006-10-09 14:44:11 · answer #6 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! You should get to know her better! What if you're going out with a cheater or a total bi tch and don't know it?
2006-10-09 14:54:10 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Love Love♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out with her, i guess. .. why dont you get
to know her a little better and then make the move !
2006-10-09 14:45:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you gotta change your screen name buddy... then, just be yourself... if she doesn't like that, then find someone who does...
2006-10-09 14:43:19 · answer #9 · answered by B-rad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋