men of all races stare at my backside ALL the time. they always make comments when i walk past. why do men think they have the right to lustfully stare at black women for prolonged periods of time? they dont do this to women of other races that much.
2006-10-09 14:38:38 · 28 answers · asked by lala m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People, this girl is just fishing for compliments......read her other questions and you will find out she is a racist.
2006-10-09 14:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by Led*Zep*Babe 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
So many men don't love a black womens booty. What happen was it was said out loud in front of white men, what the likes and dislikes of the black man were. So that gave license in the male club for white, latin etc to speak about what a black man likes. It's a way for men in general to have something in common. Beside that, the word booty is very funny. White men certainly
were'nt calling a women's posterior booty. They were saying ***. As to women of other races being treated this way, you can't honestly say that, that's not going on. You have'nt been
everywhere. These are low class men that your coming across.
Take a cab from now on. Walk down a different street. What I have found is that many many people have no manners at all, everything is all about them. A person who cares about his fellow
man would never make a person he or she does or does'nt know
feel uncomfortable by mentioning a part of his or her body. These
are low class people you are running into. Your going to have to do a few things. First you're going to have to get comfortable with
your own body. You're going to have to state the facts to yourself. Is my buttocks unusually big? Do I think this is so? This
is where your discomfort is coming in to play. You may agree with them. So if you agree, relax about it and you will start to come up with snappy answers to the cat calls. If your behind is
regular then you will have to learn how to ignore the cat calls or
come up with funny answers. But the snappy answers are not
going to come until you decide what you believe about what's being said about you.
2006-10-09 22:18:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The reason for that is that mostly Black women has the nicest, roundest butt and many men desire that. There are some Spanish ladies that have that characteristic also, but it mostly prevails in Black women. Be proud that you have a nice butt many whites and other races like to have one like yours too.
You are just very desirable to men. Consider that a compliment and don't let it bother you. They are only wishing that they could touch and be theirs. They have no right to stare but what are you going to do, argue with everyman that looks at your booty?
2006-10-09 21:48:25 · answer #3 · answered by Boricua Born 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well black girls do most generally have really nice rears and you cant state "why do men think they have the right to stare" cuz you know if you see a good lookin guy you gonna stare lustfully now i could see your point if they were grabbing at it and stuff like that but if they are just staring you shouldnt be complaining.
2006-10-09 21:48:15 · answer #4 · answered by Lance 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
girlfriend you are so vain,it,s a good thing that you feel good about yourself.women find that the clothes they wear makes them more appealing,which is true but women promote this trend ,it takes more than physical attributes to hold any man down since it takes an emotional commitment for men to be more transfixed on you,Knowing how to do that is making you a real keeper.
2006-10-09 21:54:36 · answer #5 · answered by delmy d 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
personally i stare at all of them,i am no booty racist thats for sure,big or small,round or rounder (ok i dont like flat ones,lol) umm anyway id say you kinda need to get over it and either embrace the fact that you got a nice caboose,or else just get over yourself all together,lol
2006-10-09 21:44:05 · answer #6 · answered by seth s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men have always loved a womans behind it's just really open now
i have the same problem
if they dont touch then let them enjoy the view
2006-10-09 21:40:45 · answer #7 · answered by Tia 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
its trendy now, with Beyonce flaunting her butt around in videosit is socially acceptable, boney behinds is out , and women with back is in. you are right, men of all races are attracted to the booty
2006-10-09 21:43:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we as black women are full figured with all the right curves in all the right places. We have a body of passion, but at the same time strenght and pose`. Lets face it, men like big butts and we as black women have just that. Be proud of your beauty and let them look, as long as they don't touch.
2006-10-09 21:42:17 · answer #9 · answered by 2"CUTE"2B30 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Well us and Hispanics have the big booty trait. And because of the stereotype they have to see if we are one of those girls with that big a-s-s and if we do they are mostly rude and shout out.
2006-10-09 21:47:19 · answer #10 · answered by Mystify 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You honestly think that only you or black women experience this? Thats stupid! Im white and experience thiis almost constantly and I m by far not the only one.
Anyway,ever stop to think maybe theyre afraid theyll get lost on that deep black forest?
2006-10-09 21:40:57 · answer #11 · answered by TrofyWife 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋