I dated a guy for 3 years...now he is dating someone else. However, he will still tell me that he will never stop loving me and that he will never close the door on us. Hello??!! What is that?? If he is so apparently into me (with much sarcasm), why is he dating someone else?
2006-10-09 14:38:32 · 11 answers · asked by JustAsking 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly, it sounds like he's keeping his options open...stringing you along in case his current relationship doesn't work out or just to have you on the "booty call" list.
Move on, even if your heart's not in it. You don't deserve to be anyone's second choice!
2006-10-09 14:42:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are territorial, like all mammals. Once you belong to him, a typical male can't bear the thought of letting anyone else have you, even if he doesn't want you right now. So he's keeping you on a string to prevent that happening. That's one explanation.
The other possible explanation is that he does still love you, but he's got the message that you're not interested. He's letting you know how he feels, in the hope that you might change your mind - but so far, you haven't given him any encouragement.
If you want to know which is his reason, give him an ultimatum. If he wants you, then he has to dump his current girlfriend and come back to you. Otherwise, he can keep the door open as long as he likes, but you're never going to be coming through it, because you're never going to see him again.
2006-10-09 15:17:45 · answer #2 · answered by Kylie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are probably things about you that he does not want in a girlfriend but he can still have feelings for you. when he begins to develop real feelings for his new girl and starts to appreciate the things she brings to the relationship then he will stop bugging you. men take a while to get over a relationship so they pretend that they are over the girl your ex is just honest enough to tell you his feelings doesn't mean he's lying doesn't mean he wants you back. take it as a compliment
2006-10-09 14:46:28 · answer #3 · answered by sexylousleo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's keeping the door to sex with you open, and possibly friendship. Most of the time it's about the sex though.
2006-10-09 14:41:31 · answer #4 · answered by Social_D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's keeping you around in case it doesn't work out with the other woman. men always want to have someone waiting in the wings
2006-10-09 14:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by jdchick48 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he knows you still love him. he will always have you whenever he wants.he wants to keep you for him.
sorryyyyyyyyyyyy. but if you love him go and get him
2006-10-09 14:47:50 · answer #6 · answered by mariana i 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg me too i just dont get it moving on is hard for some men i guess
2006-10-09 14:42:25 · answer #7 · answered by plumcouch30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes for men (and women) when you give a piece of your heart away, its hard to take it back...
2006-10-09 14:45:07 · answer #8 · answered by B-rad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait...i thought it was usually the other way around. that girls usually don't get over the guys.
2006-10-09 14:40:42 · answer #9 · answered by RN806 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont do this once shes gone, shes gone at least for me
2006-10-09 14:42:34 · answer #10 · answered by xdfsddfgdfgdfg d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋