well i know i am bi. and i like guys other than the fact that cetain parts creep me out. could i be just straight up lesbian?
2006-10-09 14:26:15 · 19 answers · asked by cutelittledeadgirl7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with the psychologists who say that sexual orientation is not cut and dry, it is a spectrum. You could be 80% lesbian and 20% into guys. I don't think that there is a cut and dry answer. Some people have a much more obvious preference than others. If manly parts scare you and you prefer women, then you're more on the lesbian side. Whether you're attracted to men or whether you like kissing them are different than whether you want to have sex with one.
Understanding your own sexuality is hard. I know that I've often wondered if I'm a lesbian too, but I do enjoy making love with men. Does that put me at 50/50%? It doesn't bother me. You love who you love, regardless of gender. That's my opinion.
2006-10-09 14:36:52 · answer #1 · answered by Loon-A-TiK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lesbian
2006-10-09 21:27:33 · answer #2 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - not likely that you are straight up lesbian if you still like guys. These labels we use such as straight, bi and lesbian are more self-descriptors I think than actual medical behavioral or sexual terms. If you want to believe you are a lesbian, then go ahead, believe it. If you want to believe you are straight, then that is your decision. If you think and feel that you are something in between, then I would agree with you based upon what you say here in your question.
2006-10-09 21:28:46 · answer #3 · answered by Fun and Games 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi how do i tell if im a lesbian? ive kissed a few girls as a joke and never seriously, ive had a few boyfriends but also not seriously, then i was dared to kiss my bestfriend at a party and i did and i liked it, then i had a dream about me and her in a relationship, but then i still think some guys are hot im so confused! i really need to know how to tell because im worried!!!!
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2013-11-23 13:15:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would it bother you if you were? You are how you are. Whether you are straight, bi or lesbian, Look at your friends, ask yourself why they like you, you're answer is because of who you are, not your sexuality. So be yourself, be the ruler of your own life.
2006-10-10 22:19:43 · answer #5 · answered by kittycat_cc14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like girls more than guys? Would you rather make out with a girl than a guy? If so, then yep you might be pure lesbian rather than bi.
Just date whoever makes you happy, and don't worry about the labels. :-)
Good luck to you!
2006-10-09 21:28:16 · answer #6 · answered by I ♥ AUG 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you are lesbian if those parts are creepy to you. I mean, I kind of understand what you mean, and there is no shame in being lesbian. Good luck. :-)
2006-10-09 21:30:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im gonna put simple if u like pu$$y more then d**k ur straight up lesbian and theres nothing wrong with that
2006-10-09 21:30:10 · answer #8 · answered by alfonso g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Experiment a bit more. Kiss a few guys, get hot photos and you will eventually decide which you are.
2014-10-06 18:05:31 · answer #9 · answered by GEORGIA! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to take the butterfly test
do guys *and* gals give you butterflies and tingles, or just the gals? if you think guys are nice to look at but there are no butterflies or tingles, you're likely straight up lesbian.
bright blessings
2006-10-09 21:30:56 · answer #10 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋