i really like this girl her name is jillian and we are best friends and i care about alot but i think of any words to say for her to understand that i am never gonna hurt her becasue she has been in a couple of past realtionships with best friends that all cheated on her and i wanna do something really sweet for her at our homecomeing this friday
2006-10-09 14:24:47 · 5 answers · asked by ballerforlife 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. Make sure to hang out in places where you know you will see the guy you have a crush on. This could be at the mall, the movies, or maybe at the baseball field if he's an athlete. Walk up to him slowly and introduce yourself. Many guys are too afraid to walk up to a girl. If he is friendly to you back, you can keep on talking to him.
2. Make eye contact with him. If he makes eye contact back for five seconds and twice or more, he's probably interested too. Make sure he's not looking at you because you're doing something extremely weird or he is the cashier.
3. When you have the opportunity, talk to him or his friends and find out if he has a girlfriend.
4. Commence flirting. This can mean thing such as touching him lightly on the arm, or laughing at his jokes. Sometimes, you can flirt from afar and entice him to come over to you.
5. Ask him what kind of things he likes to do, such as what he likes to eat, if he likes to play sports, or if he's a movie lover. Once you find something you both have in common, ask if he'd like to do it together sometime.
6. If he says no, or seems like he needs more time, don't get too upset; always say you can just be friends if that's what he wants. Chances are, he'll change his mind. Guys do this a lot. Whatever you do, don't trash him to others; it makes you look bad.
7. If he says yes, then plan where and when you will go out, and don't forget to have fun. Since you asked, you should pay for the date, unless he insists.
2006-10-09 14:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did all the other best friends do? If they treated her badly, treat her nicely. If you ever give a girl flowers, make it ONE. Make sure what is her favorite color, flower, and you can give it to her, she will know you thought of her. Write on that flower, with a permenant marker (preferred) or glitter glue, "Will you (U) dance with me?" Always look a girl in the eye when you speak, it will show you pay attention to her (or, what girls think). The best way you show you care is by actions, so have her back when in trouble, help her with homework...when you are ready to say "I love you", remember to say it yourself in private with her. It will show that it is YOU that wishes to tell HER, not the rest of the world like a clown.
2006-10-09 21:37:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, being a girl meself, and knowing what I want MY crush to say to me, i would say that you might buy her some little gift or whatever. and then TELL her how you feel. don't just say, "oh i love you!" be more...dart...can't think of the word. anyway, just tell her how you feel, and tell her that you know she's been hurt, but you'd NEVER do that to her.
2006-10-09 21:32:09 · answer #3 · answered by ♥_Me&You_♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that simple is the best. Find something that makes her smile, that reassures her that you are loyal to your relationship.
2006-10-09 21:27:06 · answer #4 · answered by di12381 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FLOWERS ALL GIRLS LOVE FLOWERS!!!!!!
2006-10-09 21:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by vickielynnperry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋