SITUATION: Five years ago you broke up with your ex girlfriend who was your girlfriend for three years and was your close friend and bandmate for 10years. Your reason for breaking up was you had a lot of self-issues to fix and you felt that you couldn't handle the relationship because you were both young. She did everything to get you back but you continued to reject her. Within a year, her dad had a mistress, and she was diagnosed of multiple breast tumors and when you came back she wouldn't speak to you. You wanted to win her back and did everything. So she gave you a chance because she still loves but you screwed up! You kept on making promises you'll be there but you didn't come while she was waiting for you. She never ever spoke to you again and she even transferred to another place. You decided to let her be. And your paths have separated.
Within five years, you have got a good job, earned a good living, and met several other girls and there's one you had been eyeing.
2006-10-09 14:23:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This girl is different from your ex of course. She has some positive traits which were negative with your ex. But you just couln't seem to love her. Then you decided to make the real move after flirting with the nice girl for quite some time but just this morning you stumbled upon your ex who's looking more beautiful, available and have not been involved with other guys for the past 5 years, and you had coffee and you really enjoyed her company.
QUESTION #1: Who would you choose?
A. ex-girl
B. nice-girl
QUESTION #2:
WHy?????
THANK YOU VERY MUCH!
2006-10-09 14:27:20 · update #1
well im not sure what your question is but this guys an asshole. Im a guy and i wouldnt do no ****** up **** like that. I would kill for someone to give a **** about me i wouldnt push her away.
id take the ex back if i had any sense
2006-10-09 14:28:40 · answer #1 · answered by xdfsddfgdfgdfg d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well , that is so cruel . the reson he gave up his relation ship is not resoanabale . it is more like a joke . if you have a problem in your life , then you can fix it with the support you can get from friends not with breaking up ! and it was really stupidity that he came back . i mean if you want it back you should take care of it and if you didn't like it first place it is so dumb if you want it back .
and you should notice that this friend needed you when she was sick . you had to help her . you didn't . go to the hell !!
2006-10-09 22:00:37 · answer #2 · answered by arash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look the guy came back to the girl basically becoz of pity when he broke up with er he had already move on so let him leave life to the fulest and if your the girl who had the tumours leave him he'll break your heart ,and if your a new girl out to get him go for it
2006-10-09 21:29:52 · answer #3 · answered by dalmas e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a. ex-girl
because the history is already there
2006-10-09 21:27:45 · answer #4 · answered by m deal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where is the question?
2006-10-09 21:27:51 · answer #5 · answered by Richard E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋