are you scared to fly???

Question

I am, what can I do to calm me and my husband down, we are flying to Denver soon and we are both very nervous???

Answer 1

No. I do it every week

Answer 2

I am also a nervous flier. But I have a friend who is a licensed pilot and he shared the following information with me:

Planes do NOT in a straight line to their destinations. They have to alter course occasionally. Every time they do this, the plane will tilt left or right (that's how planes turn) and there might be some clanking or other noise as large control surfaces move. All perfectly normal.

Shortly after takeoff, there will be a certain amount of noise and minor shaking as the landing gear are retracted and the doors for them open and close. Same thing around landing time.

The plane will probably have to change speed or altitude occasionally. When it does, the sound of the engines will change and the plane may seem to rise or drop. Perfectly normal.

Some approaches to certain airports are, by nature of surrounding terrain, etc., difficult to deal with. For example, I've been told that Juneau, Alaska is ringed by serious mountains, requiring that any incoming flight almost stand on its wing to get between peaks and land safely. Again, perfectly normal. Many flights land every day at airports that have difficult approaches without incident.

The thing that helps me the most is watching the cabin crew. All of them fly zillions of miles per year. If something serious went wrong, they'd almost certainly know it before you. If they're going about their jobs in a normal fashion, (and they will be), relax, all is well.

You are far more likely to be hurt in a car crash on the way to the airport than to die in a plane wreck.

In the extremely unlikely event of a crash or unplanned landing (nice euphemism, eh?), know what the "crash position" is and how to properly brace yourself. A surprising number of air crashes ARE survivable.

And of course, upon entering the aircraft and taking your seat, look about to see where the nearest two exits are (one may be blocked in an emergency). Make it your business to KNOW how to get out in a hurry.

And PLEASE pay attention to the cabin crew when they give the "safety demonstration". Very few people do pay attention but the crew doesn't give the presentation for their health. It's for yours.

One more time- watch the cabin crew. If they're calm. you're calm.

Have a good trip.

Answer 3

So am I, which really sucks, because I'm a pilot.

No, really, driving is so much more dangerous on a per mile basis than is flying. The worst thing about the airlines is the waiting, the crowds, and the losing of the luggage.
Your fear isn't of the flying, it's of something unfamiliar. I could describe for you minute by minute of what to expect (I've done it for others), and bore you to tears, because that's what flying is. Boring. All you have to do is sit back and tolerate it. There is nothing to fear.

And the only reason I fear flying is because I have to occasionally let someone else do it. It's a control thing.

Answer 4

You and your husband should bring along something the two of you can do together that would be okay with the airline. I'm not sure what that could be, maybe you could ask you husband for ideas. I've been on an airplane 4 times including the trips back. I was 5 and 6 so I don't really remember.

Answer 5

Nope. Just keep in mind that you are in FAR more danger driving to the airport, and forget about the flying. There isn't any point in worrying anyway. Have a drink and sit back, and enjoy the view. Embrace the adventure.
Have a great trip!

Answer 6

I love to fly. I have flown into Denver probably 50 times. The new airport is very nice. The planes are nice. Just enjoy it.

Answer 7

terrifed. but i have to fly a good deal, so i just do it. is awful when u are on a transatlantic flights and u fall asleep and u wake up in the dead of the night and everthing is silent and u just realize that u r hundreds of thousands of feet into the air and u feel like u r gonna die. SORRY i dont think this is helping. Just think that 'they' say flying is the safest way to travel and u will feel better.

Answer 8

Well I distract myself by looking at the beauty in it. I like to face my fears head on. For instance, im afraid of heights so I want to go skydiving. I make myself look out the window but then see how pretty it is. Especially when the sun is setting. I know that God is with me and He is holding up the plane. This doesnt work for everyone though, like my brother. He does things like listens to music or does crossword puzzles... If you distract yourself the only thing that can scare is the turbulance. Just try not to think about it.

Answer 9

I am terrified of flying. I know the safer then driving thing doesnt work...either do any statistics...Call your doctor and ask for some zanex... I believe most docs are used to this request for flying...He may even suggest something even better...its great..it will realllly relax you.

Answer 10

It's not the flying that's scary!! Just kidding, flying is the best. It is wonderful, awesome, love it! You can make up your mind to either hate it, or to enjoy a real experience. It's really beautiful up there. You should enjoy it.

Answer 11

well its quite normal for every one to be nervous before you fly and excited.

all you must understand is that if something is going to happen it will happen whether you fly or not.

but i love flights its an amazing feeling. you should just enjy and think of your destination.

takecare
hope you have a safe and nice holiday.