Okay, so i really like this one guy who well, is older then me, but not by that much, i'm 14 and a freshmen, he's 15, and a sophomore, well, i hear from a few people that all he cares about is getting into girls pants and just kissing and making out, and that he flirts a lot. But a close friend of mine told me he's not as big of a flirt as everyone sayd he is, but then another friend of mine told me he is (both of them are also sophmors and have known him for a while now) Thing is, i like him a lot, he's so cute and really sweet, and fun to hang out with. But yeah, by what i hear, i'm not sure what to do, because he asked me out. He said he likes me a lot and when i asked him about the all he wants is getting into girls pants and what not thing, he said that that was sooo not true, and that he'd rather have an actual relationship(i was like yeah...right) but i want to believe him, should i? I was thinking of going out with him, and if things go in the wrong direction, then dump him
2006-10-09 14:20:31 · 16 answers · asked by blahblahblah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that if you really like him and you see a potential for a relationship (that will benefit you both) that you should go for it. I agree with your decision that if things start going the wrong way to dump him. Make sure that no matter how close you two get, do not compromise your values, and make a mistake that you would not like the consequences of. Make sure that you always remember who you are and that you have a right to be respected.
2006-10-09 14:25:18 · answer #1 · answered by Cat/Curiosity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know exactly what he's up to and you want someone to tell you it is okay. Well it is not okay to be a trollop. You are too young to be "dating" anybody. There's plenty of time for that when you're 25. For now, you should concentrate on learning how to cook and sew and clean house so you can be a good wife when Mr. Right comes along.
2006-10-09 21:26:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say be cautious, if you want to date him. Even if it just rumors, it's hard to ignore what you hear..Just be cautious meaning get to know him before you actually commit and to tell you the truth 15 is still pretty young. If you sense that they are true, then it's OK to just cool your jets. The problem here is that you are aware of his past dating history, but everyone deserves a chance. Take it slow and don't rush and be prepared. Don't get your hopes to high ...BE FRIENDS FIRST ...don't rush it....and at 15, honey you need to focus more on school and getting into college...they are alot of perverts out there to say the least...just be careful....have you seen "to catch a predator" on dateline???
2006-10-09 21:32:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sure why not date him no harm in that but dont sleep with him or go to the next stage for a while if he isnt like that then he wont care if he keeps trying to push you even after youve stoped him once that means he is all about sex or moving to the next stage.
2006-10-09 21:25:29 · answer #4 · answered by SunShineBabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he is really into getting into girls pants just yet, he is only 15 years old and that is a bit young. give him a change, what do you got to lose.
2006-10-09 21:24:47 · answer #5 · answered by goof ball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always good to give someone a second chance. what does your heart say. if it feels he is being honest, try it out but be careful to only go on group dates, or hang out in groups, so you can be safe so he doesnt try anything, once you feel uncomfortable, I say dump him while you are safe.
2006-10-09 21:24:14 · answer #6 · answered by Grandma of six 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 is still a very young age. Concentrate on your study. But is ok just to be friend. Nothing more.
2006-10-09 21:22:54 · answer #7 · answered by insurebizz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the two of you can be friends WITHOUT benefits for a reasonable amount of time, then maybe try it out. If you do, though, don't let him take advantage of you. Reading your question, I know you're too good for that. :D
2006-10-09 21:25:50 · answer #8 · answered by K-Rex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try giving him a chance but if he starts pullin a perv move dump him like that rite ther on the spot in less ur compterble wit what hes doing its just all on u its ur decision
2006-10-09 21:23:48 · answer #9 · answered by megan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats lust not love you like him because his looks or something like that and he wants to get in your pants and then he'll lose intrest its a guy thing in high school unless you take it slow but that might not work either so make a desicion
2006-10-09 21:24:02 · answer #10 · answered by jesse s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋