So, e-harmony says I'm not a match for anyone?

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Which is ok, I was more interested in the psych test part of it. But, because I'm curious and full of many things, I want to see how well people match up with these traits. If good, bad or indifferent to these, let me know.

You prefer to wait until you're sure of your ground before acting. This might mean after several visits to a new place, or after a few meetings with a new person, you will feel more open to risk or share trust.

You will generally not act impulsively. As a result, others around you may perceive a slowness of thought or action. This results not from slow thinking, but from complete analysis of the situation before acting.

You prefer not to seek quick personal relationships, but rather build relationships slowly. Once your relationships are formed, they tend to be lasting.

Continued in details

You function best in an environment relatively free of conflict or hostility. When tension mounts, you may become silent; and if tension continues, you may withdraw or avoid the situation altogether.
You may not jump in immediately for a new idea or activity. You may need time to consider all aspects of the idea before supporting it with time and talent.
You tend to think before you act. As a result, the things you do will be purposeful and deliberate.
You are skilled at being diplomatic with people in all settings.
You are generally good at cooling down tense situations in a relationship.
You generally take pride in being a strong community member.
You tend to have very high values.
You are excellent at listening to your partner.
You are very respectful of the needs and wants of other people.
You tend to set and maintain very high standards for yourself.
You tend to be an objective, careful evaluator of situations.

You tend to bring feelings of security and stability to a relationship.
Things it says I "may want"
Things done "right" the first time.
Others to adhere to your high standards.
Straight talk and straight dealing.
Security and safety procedures around the house: fire safety, smoke detectors, electronic security systems, etc.
A supportive environment where you do not have to display great emotion.
Time to adjust to change.
Facts and data before making decisions relating to others.
Others to present their ideas and information in a logical order.
Recognition for your concern for quality relationships.
Fewer changes, if many changes have occurred recently.
Objectivity and logic in relationships and activities.

Red "Unfortunately, we are not able to make our profiles work for you. Our matching system is not suitable for about 20% of potential users, so 1 in 5 people simply would not benefit from our service. We hope that you understand that we regret our inability to provide service for you at this time."

Yes, RN806. How you missed it, I don't know. But, here. I'm asking what you think of these traits the test says I have, if you think yourself compatible with a person who has them.

I'm also going to take a wild guess that RN806 didn't actually read the full post, yet still decided to inject his or her peculiar question.

Answer 1

I haven't heard that many good things about E-Harmony. So, if you don't find any matches, find another dating service. My best friend tried E-Harmony as well and got the same result you did. She is the coolest person in the world, funny, pretty, etc. And I couldn't figure out why she didn't get any matches. So, it probably isn't "you", it's the way they do things. Good luck and try another dating service. Ok?

Answer 2

And why weren't you a match? There HAD to be someone.

Answer 3

This is too much info, so e-harmony s-ucks!!!

Answer 4

are you asking a question???