i am still in love with my ex bf, we were in a long distance relationship.. for about 2 years...we have been through some rough times but it was all worth it in the end...
i want to be with him so much..and i told him....
he said he just cant do the long distance thing anymore..and i understand but..im head over heals in love with this man..and i cant stop lovin him..
idk what to do...
please help
2006-10-09 14:19:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let him go. it sucks. but its what ya gotta do.
2006-10-09 14:21:06 · answer #1 · answered by RN806 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy that stinks....I'm in a similar situation right now. Of course I wouldn't bore you with my details so lets cut straight to the advice-giving part. Despite the fact that you are still in love with him, you really need to try and move on. Depending on how far away he is, you may not even be able to see him again unless you insist on waiting until you have the ability to go to him. I'm not saying you have to, just try.
2006-10-09 14:28:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like it or not, begin dating other guys. The feelings will fade; yo have to allow them to do so.
Understand, everyone remembers and cherishes their first real love, and carries around a bit of pain left over, no matter how long the live.
2006-10-09 14:22:24 · answer #3 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on he's probably already with someone else is the reason why he said he couldnt do the long distance thing again.
2006-10-09 14:23:05 · answer #4 · answered by Lucy Lu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk a lot w/ your friends & family, distract yourself w/ work, school, sports. hobbies, anything you like or love to do. just get him out of your head. it will hurt for a little while but just hang in there- there are x-boyfriends that my heart hurt so much for & I thought at the time the pain would never go away, but, now when I think of them or even see them out, its like nothing! its like "hey, how are you... " like any other aquaintence. so just take it easy, girl & good luck-
2006-10-09 14:24:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to try to move on if he cant do it other wise your in the thing alone. if you can get him to change his mind then dont give up and keep trying. do you really love him or is it the memories of when you were together? let that help you determine what you really feel.
2006-10-09 14:21:51 · answer #6 · answered by momma3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no problem with the long distance thing... call me.
2006-10-09 14:22:02 · answer #7 · answered by ... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he break up wit u if so move on if not then ask him out again and that should work and i fur to emmbaressed write him this in a letter
2006-10-09 14:21:35 · answer #8 · answered by megan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋