I am 14 years old in the 9th grade in high school and i just broke up with my boyfriend but i dont know why i just felt that i needed to.
What should i do to get myself back with him? I mean I kissed him and then 30 minutes later texed him and said that i just needed to be single for a while. He started crying in the bowling alley parking lot>>>> what should ido to apologize and get back together with him i mean i really love him and he still loves me but i just need help on getting back together with him but he said that he just needed some time to think about it i really need some help PLZ HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-09 14:19:04 · 6 answers · asked by richardson_tori 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course he needs to think. One minute you're kissing him, the next you're dumping him, and the next you want back. He's thinking, "this chick is a little psycho...do I really want to be with her." My advice is that the best thing you can do is give him what he needs...time to think it over. It will probably be good for you too, so you can decide whether you want him as your bf or whether you want to find someone else or fly solo for a while. gl
2006-10-09 14:24:25 · answer #1 · answered by David B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing is you are only 14 you have your whole adult life to have boyfriends as for him let him go. Sometimes to show people you love them is to do just that. I think both of you need to separate and really give yourselves some space and time to think. I also think you should focus more on your studies although sounding like a parent it's good advice this way when you are really ready for a serious talk about what you want in your relationship with him once you both have calmed down.
These days you have so much on offer to you unlike when I was your age (I am now 38) boys were more trouble than they were worth.
There is nothing wrong with just being friends for a while and just taking your time to really know each other, than just being with someone because you feel sorry for them they will resent you after a while.
Good Luck
- Claudine
2006-10-09 21:32:25 · answer #2 · answered by non 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, this happens with almost EVERY long term relationship; they break up and then get together and then break back up. This is something you will have to get used to. I'm sure he will say yes about getting back together. It almost always happens that way, TRUST me, I have several friends who are in a long-term relationship.
2006-10-09 21:22:28 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Love Love♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey little puppy, you're too young to be involve in a very serious matter. Let it go.
2006-10-09 21:46:51 · answer #4 · answered by louie0894 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something sweet for him.
2006-10-09 21:23:06 · answer #5 · answered by masterurownmind 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be okay by tomorrow!
2006-10-09 21:22:27 · answer #6 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋