if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that?
2006-10-09 14:18:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think we already answered this earlier?
2006-10-09 14:20:36 · answer #1 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually Girls can show happy from the outside in a relationship but keep the sour from inside going. Its more like that with girls as compared to guys cos they are more sensative and feel reluctant to slow there true feelings which might hurt someone on the other side , unlike guys majority who does not care that much about the immotional traumas.
And as a matter of fact due to this non disclosure of things girls do tend to call the Ex in few weeks time when the tides are really low in the current relationships.
There is no way to truely judge what a girl is upto.
2006-10-09 21:31:52 · answer #2 · answered by The Zing Thing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, I don't know what to say about the whole 'calling her ex' situation, because maybe she just needs him to talk to. But if he's not answering, I don't see why she's not getting it. But, about your question of'can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside?'. Yes. Yes they can be, and it's really not hard. all you need is some make-up. and someone to smile about. But that doesnt change something else that may be going on. Help her. If you get the feeling that this is going on, help her. If you see her looking really sad, and then the moment you turn to look at her her face just kind of smiles (usually without the teeth haha dont ask how i know this) then you may be getting the right 'vibes' from her. she just doesnt want people to know, and she doesnt want to bring anyone else down. Idk what to say, i know exactly what your question is...but it's hard to answer because sometimes you just have to let life happen. good luck.
2006-10-09 21:23:07 · answer #3 · answered by sugar4sandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may still love her ex but the things she has to realize it didnt work out and that she has to move on. The more she calls the more she holds on the right thing is being done by not answering cause it keeps her from holding on to something thats not there anymore.
2006-10-09 21:20:53 · answer #4 · answered by SunShineBabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, yeah there are definatly girls like that. Well maybe she hasn't got over her feelings for the other guy. So try to ask her in a nice way if she still has any feelings for the guy. And just try to stay positive.
2006-10-09 21:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Cooly Girl♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are the rebound dude. Sorry, it's not a great position to be in and she doesn't purposely want to hurt you, but she is still all wrapped up in that other guy and she should probably just be alone for a while so she can work it out herself.
2006-10-09 21:21:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs more time to get over him. she is still hanging on to a little bit of hope that he might still give her another chance. i went though this same thing myself. let her know that her contacting him makes you feel bad. if she still doesn't care after that , then let her go. shes not worth it.
2006-10-09 21:25:04 · answer #7 · answered by froggie26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She hasn't gotten over him. Let her go and if she comes back to you untied from the previous relationship then she's yours.
2006-10-09 21:20:03 · answer #8 · answered by Lucy Lu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, we can hide things well!!!!
2006-10-09 21:22:21 · answer #9 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋